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Body memories -trigger warning

MissyAmerica January 1st, 2018

Tw.

I am sure this sounds crazy but I have nothing to lose. Sometimes I still feel him. I feel like a sick and disgusting person for this. I think he would be happy :***( I wish someone good and safe had been near.

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HavenonEarth January 1st, 2018

Are you referring to an unconsent sexual act?

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MissyAmerica OP January 1st, 2018

@HavenonEarth ya :(

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HavenonEarth January 1st, 2018

@MissyAmerica

Do you wamna share a little more? I

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MissyAmerica OP January 1st, 2018

@HavenonEarth it's hard to talk about but I've been trying because I feel like I just can't take this to my grave. Idk why. It doesn't get easier to admit that I was sexually abused. I still feel queasy admitting that. :/

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HavenonEarth January 1st, 2018

@MissyAmerica

Well, don

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MissyAmerica OP January 2nd, 2018

@HavenonEarth nod. I think so too. It's hard to fsay or write the words sometimes. I just want to know what it feels like to be a safe and complete person. I get pulled back with thoughts like "nobody wants to know this." It isn't pleasant conversation. :/

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HavenonEarth January 2nd, 2018

@MissyAmerica

No conversation about abuse or any kind of maltreatment is pleasant, really. Better to face them someday, than to avoid them constantly - thats the path to happiness.

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MissyAmerica OP January 2nd, 2018

@HavenonEarth I know you are right. I need to find a venue where I can't trigger others. I so wish I could figure this all out on my own. I would like to be good. I don't feel like I'm good. I think my abusers might have killed me on the inside. I just want to be good. I know they say I'm good on general self help sites but I feel differently about myself. I'm in constant state of vigilance. It is exhausting and I can't take meds cuz of other health problems. I worry about being too much for others to handle cuz my experience with listeners is that this stuff triggers most and those who aren't triggered don't know what to say

I don't blame them. I know I need more than listeners. I. Miss being able to work. I had options when I had $$.

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HavenonEarth January 2nd, 2018

@MissyAmerica

Dunno if you know this, but it

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