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Coping with Dissociation

User Profile: CatListener
CatListener December 4th
Grounding Techniques
Grounding helps reconnect you with the present moment and your surroundings:

5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Method:

Identify 5 things you can see.
Name 4 things you can touch.
Recognize 3 things you can hear.
Notice 2 things you can smell.
Identify 1 thing you can taste.
Hold an Object:
Find a textured object (like a stone or piece of fabric) and focus on how it feels in your hand.

2. Sensory Stimulation
Engage your senses to stay present:

Cold Sensations:
Hold an ice cube or splash cold water on your face to bring yourself back to the moment.

Smell or Taste:
Use essential oils or chew mint gum to stimulate your sense of smell and taste.

3. Physical Movement
Grounding Walk:
Pay attention to each step, noticing the pressure and movement of your feet.

Butterfly Hug:
Cross your arms over your chest and gently tap your shoulders alternately, creating a comforting rhythm.

4. Breathing Exercises
Deep breathing can reduce anxiety and prevent further dissociation:

4-7-8 Breathing:

Inhale for 4 counts.
Hold your breath for 7 counts.
Exhale slowly for 8 counts.
Box Breathing:
Breathe in for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts, breathe out for 4 counts, hold again for 4 counts.

5. Engage with Your Environment
Describe Your Surroundings:
Out loud or in your head, describe your environment in detail to anchor yourself.

List Colors or Objects:
Find and name all the objects of a certain color in the room.

6. Mindfulness Practices
Focus on the Present Moment:
Use guided meditation apps to practice being in the here and now.

Body Scan:
Mentally scan your body from head to toe, noticing any sensations.

7. Journaling
Grounding Journal:
Write about what you see, hear, and feel in the present moment. This reinforces your connection to reality.
8. Connect with Someone
Talk to a Trusted Person:
A quick conversation can ground you and remind you of your current reality.
9. Safe Place Visualization
Imagine a Safe Space:
Visualize a place where you feel calm and secure. Use all your senses to build the mental image.
10. Create a "Grounding Kit"
Include small objects, snacks, or sensory items (like stress balls) that help you feel anchored.

Remember:
Dissociation is your mind’s way of coping with overwhelming experiences. These strategies can help, but consistent support from a trauma-informed professional is often essential for long-term healing.







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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 December 4th

@CatListener again Thank you for this post ❤❤ thread are tips for panic attacks, right?? Cause when I dissociate, I just stare blankly go to another place in my mind, and my carers have to bring me back to this world by repeating my name and touching my shoulder. It's not nice cause I don't know what's happening

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User Profile: CatListener
CatListener OP December 4th

@Tinywhisper11 I'm very sorry to hear that. Very tough. That is a bit more than dissociation, seems like worse. I'm glad you are here and seeking support. Sending hugs!

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 December 4th

@CatListener yeah it's a weird one. I'm awaiting another appointment, I got a new psychiatrist who wants to do a new diagnosis, cause he thinks there's a few extra issues to diagnose. But I'll be ok ❤ ❤

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul December 4th

@Tinywhisper11 Dissociation can affect someone’s perception, consciousness, memory, identity, and even motor control. It exists on a spectrum, with experiences ranging from mild dissociation like zoning out to more severe disorders like post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and dissociative identity disorder (DID). Canvas explains it pretty good  HERE


When someone is dissociated, it can cause them to feel detached from themselves or the world around them. They might also experience feelings of physical and emotional numbness, or have flashbacks, all of which can cause them to appear unfocused, disconnected, or zoned out.

Given your past, I think it's to be expected that you would dissociate. This is definitely something to discuss with your therapist if they're not aware that you do this. The things mentioned in this post might help if you feel yourself starting to dissociate ❤️
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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 December 4th

@mytwistedsoul thanks soul ❤ I read the post, I'm not sure which one it is, I'm not aware of it happening🙁 but I will bring it up with my psychiatrist🙂 thanks sweetie ❤

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mytwistedsoul December 5th

@Tinywhisper11 You're welcome. I don't always know when it's happening either. It's not something you can really figure out on your own so I'm glad you have your therapist to talk to about it and your carers are aware of it too ❤️

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User Profile: SummerOfCA
SummerOfCA December 6th

i also learned an additional variation on the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method, when i'm having intense flashbacks, or my SI is overwhelmingly high, i picture a "safe place" (for me i picture the redwood forest i used to go camping in when i was growing up) and keep dragging my mind back to visualizing myself being there and doing the 5-4-3-2-1 with the safe place and it can really calm me down sometimes. ex. I can See the trees, the sky peaking through, the clover on the ground, the flowers, and banana slugs lol I can Touch the cold stone of the fire pit, the cold lumber of the picnic table, the soft bark of the tree, and the fabric of the camping chairs I can Hear the crunch of stepping on sticks, the crack of the fire, and the birds chattering I can Smell the good campfire smell and the crisp wood of the forest And I can Taste the salt from the Pacific nearby It doesn't work every time, and sometimes I have to do it repeatedly, but it can help break the cycle of the thoughts sometimes

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SummerOfCA December 6th

@SummerOfCA omg i missed/forgot that this is a post for dealing with dissociation and thought it was for dealing with ptsd, i'm so sorry, this probably doesn't help much.  is there a way to delete responses? (sorry i'm new)

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul December 10th

@SummerOfCA Grounding methods are helpful with a lot of things :) I'm sorry you deal with intense flashbacks.  You did great sharing here. I loved how descriptive your visualization is! 

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