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CatListener
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Meow! I'm a cat
Number of ratings119 Number of reviews50 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Spanish Listener sinceJun 26, 2018 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 339 People helped556 Chats1,670 Group support chats2 Listener group chats10 Forum posts25 Forum upvotes40
Bio

Wild cat with no family. My owners were narcissistic. I scaped them now I help people regarding narcissistic abuse and families, complex PTSD and also sexual health ;):):)


Meow meow

Recent forum posts
You are not the problem. It's your family
Trauma Support / by CatListener
Last post
 June 13th, 2023
...See more Ever wondered if you were crazy or mentally ill? Ever wondered if you were bipolar or borderline? You don't understand why you can't concentrate, make friends and be productive. It's your FAMILY. Narcissistic family systems Patriarch/matriarch: The main abuser Enabler: The parent that knows everything and doesn't care. For example, emotionally absent parents. Mothers who cover child sexual abuse and incest. Scapegoat: Child targeted as the main issue. Usually shows symptoms of suicide, and eating disorders. The child usually is smart and empathetic. Golden child: Targeted to compete against the scapegoat. Gets all the ''love and praise''. The child is the best at maths and sports. Perfectionist, addicted to work, and weak boundaries. Usually the youngest sibling. Outside enablers: Neighbours, therapists, teachers, and other people who encourage and justify the abusive parent's behavior and punish the child's emotions. Results in adulthood Financial stress and poverty even when the family's origin is well off Abusive relationships and issues making friends Resorting to addictions as coping mechanisms Issues having sex and relating to the opposite or same sex. Lots of shame
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Active and good listener
She's a very nice person
Understands your actual issue and listens
me escucho y me ayudo, y me comprendió
Good and caring
Very nice listener, thanks a lot.
Good listener very nice
realmente es amable y te da una opinión sincera, sin importar que tan básico pueda llegar a ser tu problema.
Excellent listener
Caring listener
Supportive, responds in a timely manner, and made me feel better.
Listens and asks questions
Thanks for the help
best of all time
Very patient, very responsive and honest. It was nice talking to you Cat.
Very good listener
Caring and attentive
Very helpful! Would chat again.
This chat is going incredibly well so far, great listener, five stars
No solo me escuchó, sino que también me ayudó a poder trabajar de lo que me apasiona, super recomendable
amazing, thanks
muy comprensiva :)
excellent listener and non-judgemental.
Really helpful:)
Was a very good listener with great advice
Good listener
Good advice. Thanks
Cat was very open to listening to everything that I said. Glad she was there when I needed someone.
Great listener. Helped me vent and calm down
Amazing person truly cares about me helped me in my Time of need
Wow, a listener! She's listening to me and not offering advice (i.e. suggestions I've already tried). She deserves a medal.
Kind caring helpful
special soul
Very helpful and kind :)
she listened and told me useful thing to look at. I was whiny too
Very helpful made me feel better
A very helpful and kind listener
Great listener thanks
Terrific person and she really listened well and was non judgmental. Great chat.
Very nice and easy to talk to :)
Catlistener was so amazing. Even for such a young age, her perspective really helped me calm down and focus on the issues. I was crying and emotionally unstable in the beginning and by the end, I was laughing and realistic about my situation. Thank you Cat!
Very helpful and very caring.
So kind
Helped a lot
Very understanding and patient. I really felt like I was being listened to when I really needed someone to talk to.
Excellent
catbsolutely wonderful listener!
She is very helpful, kind, and supportive.
Good listener. Asks good questions. Professional and helpful. Thank you
Wonderful person and excellent listener.
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