Violent older sister
My horrible adult sister just cut my hand by yanking away a piece of metal I was holding. Its hard to move on from my childhood when these behaviors keep repeating. When I was little she actually jabbed me in the face with a knife because I was scooping ice cream from a carton and she couldn't wait her turn. Last Christmas she did smashed my glasses into my face because I was taking something from the fridge and she couldn't wait her turn. She's a completely psychopath and no one will believe me because she's decent to other people. Lately, I completely hate her and I'm going to stop feeling bad about it because she deserved to be hated for what she is. And the family business controls all my earnings so I can't get away from her.
edited by Rain45 Moved to a more appropriate thread in our forums
@pluckyFarm5111 - hello there! I'm sorry to hear you're in such a hard situation where you're feeling terrible with what she's doing but also can't get out of that enviroment! That's not healthy at all & make the feelings you have for her more than reasonable. Please know you're not alone and we're here to support you if you want to talk more about what's going on. All the love xx
@MelAllyouneedislove Thank you. Your post was nice. Sometime people offer obvious solutions which makes me feel worse. I'm having another angry day because she's being really nasty and tries to stop me going to bed after all my work was done. My sister is such a control freak that she insists I stay up all night and watch TV with her because she gets mad if I sleep when she's not sleeping. If she sleeps all day and stays up all night, everyone has to keep to that schedule even when I was sick. She has so many psychotic issues I wish she'd get counseling but it will never happen because she's convinced I'm the crazy one. So I come here to vent when I need to. Thanks for not being judgemental.
@pluckyFarm5111 Offering you obvious solutions that have already not worked can only frustrate you - we don't fully know your situation so assuming we do, is something I definitely don't like to do. I'm sorry she keeps you doing that and doesn't let you sleep... you deserve your relaxing time and I understand you're tired for sure. Anytime you wish to chat, my PMs are more than open too, by the way.
I have a violent sister too and it's just horrible because she locks herself in her room and talks to her boyfriend NA DJISYDJFK wait i'll brb
I wish mine would stay in her room and leave me alone. She tried to stop me going to my room when I want to be alone and makes me listen to her rant about how much she hates me and other people. Whenever she has contact with anyone she imagines that they offend her and complain to me all day. Sometimes a stranger says somethings thought was rude and she will hate them for years even if she never sees them again. My whole life of poisoned by her constant hate rants.