Trauma bonding

@blueComputer5032 are you safe right now?

@blueComputer5032

not sure if you talking about like a family' member or like a friend. we had a hard time letting go of family members who abused us. but it was  like a tug a war for us we loved them wanted to be close to them. but on same hand we hated their actions and what they was doing to us. for use took getting  help from a mental health place and taking back our life. the things they took from us. also  our faith helped us too. 7 years ago after years of trying to let go of one who hurt me. we moved away from them. we be honest at first it was very hard but over time has gotten  better. we still talk to dad and mom. but not to our brothers. big thing for us was after moving we began to  see we was safe and free of the abuse.

 hope you can let go of unhealthy relationships and be safe and free