Words of Support
Leave some words of support or encouragement for yourself or someone who has went through a traumatic experience
@CheeryMango
I understand, deeply, how hard experiences can be. Know time has the ability to heal and trust, in time, things do change. You wont be the same person that that experience happened to in time, you'll be coping, content, more able to deal with what once happened and might happen......... More than time allow yourself to grow through this, you didn't ask for it to happen and whatever happened or how guilty or to blame you feel you may be..
Things will be different, allow yourself to learn and adapt. You are worthy of love and care, you may never fully be healed, wounds may scab and scar and heal but the area may always be sore, with that sore area be cautious and compassionate, it is not what broke you, it is what you rebuilt yourself after. Be careful with yourself, you're stronger than what you've been through 💙
Take things one day at a time. . . days add up.
If something upsets your day, stop take a breathe, focus, face your obstacle and move on to the next day.
It's more than okay to dream between the days.
what we've experienced cannot be undone , but what we decide to do with those experiences can always be changed ! (Ɔ ˘⌣˘)♥(˘⌣˘ C)
@CheeryMango
there's always a rainbow - even at the end of the worst storms
@CheeryMango, My dear child, I'm so sorry you have gone through that. (then I would offer to hug or hold the person.)
You've had to be strong to survive. That is sad, but also courageous. I hope you know you are trying your best and don't be too hard on yourself. Good luck.
Allow yourself to feel every emotion as they come...it's okay to cry and be angry, frustrated, scared and/or confused. You do not have to go it alone either, I am here for you.
@sunlightspirit husband in car accident, no work for 8 months. i am disabled. my disability check pays only rent and electricities. he is learning how to get through each day not being able to do what he used to be really good at. hard labor. I have already come to myself since I was disabled in my accident.in 2011, any new advise?
@cccmjc
Just to post that I reached out to you via a message and we were able to speak a bit about this.
I know it’s been hard, and I know it’s still hard dealing with this. And sometime we have no way to escape it but the fact you made peace with yourself and your mind is the most important, it’s the beginning line! It may be in baby steps, but you are making incredible progress. And I’m proud of you <3
I believe in using our words softly and correctly to uplift and encourage. to build and not tear down out of love. I remember this when someone tries to do harm to me. I remember, THIS TOO SHALL PASS. it sounds too easy but it is true. It will pass. the question is how will I react to it? Distract myself or plow right through it? work slow and cautious or be callous? I tend to be slow and cautious making every point count.
You are strong, resilient and brave and you can overcome anything