Leaving 7 cups
I am thinking about leaving this site as I think I am better off going through my issues by myself.
No doubt only you can do that. But this site also doesn't offers solutions. Its about discussing and sharing issues. In most of the cases you can find the way just by talking. So yea thats what this site is about... lots of positive vibes 🦋
@BeeFree82. I feel your frustration. I've tried so many paths myself and eventually they've all lead to the same thing ... Join a sub community. Since I don't retain much of what I read I find them very confusing and just a big jumble of words which heightens my existing anxiety.
I had one listener who was quite rude in my opinion within the first couple of minutes of a chat. I've had one other bad listener, in my opinion.
Best Wishes
@BeeFree82
There aren't enough good listeners here. I'm tired of waiting and waiting to be connected to someone and then they're not good enough
@BeeFree82
I too feel same sometime when i don't get good listener. But than one good listener give the hope back and i stay. But than i kept saying myself my issue and i should be responsible about it. Than when i see other people sailing same boat i feel not left out. You can ping me whenever you feel to talk. Take care .do what you feel best for yourself. Hugs.
@wittyMap7054
Thank you so 👍😊👍😊 much for you the support and your willingness to share with me your feelings. I will tag you for the future as I will probably talk to you later on about and out experience on this site. Plus we can hopefully help each other by just sharing the willingness to talk to each other
I know I started this as a way of venting my frustrations with 8 Cups. But it has helped me in many ways that I did not think about. One it has helped me out to begin the process of accepting my sexuality. To confront my depression and anxiety issues and to start to understand that I am not alone in dealing with mental health issues and I don't have to face them alone. Another thing is that I am going to deal with anger management issues as they have come to the forefront Alot here lately. And I am afraid og hurting me or someone when I lose my temper. That is one of the reasons I stayed here to address my many issues.
@BeeFree82
I'm so glad that you feel coming to this site is helping you and also that you have people to talk to! Everyone suffering from mental illness knows how hard it can be and how alone one could feel, I'm so glad that you did not leave but are still here! Anger can be very destructive and eat you from the inside. If there is anything I can help with, like resources, please just send me a pm. 💙
@amiablePeace77
Thanks for your reply and support. Your right anger eats you from the inside and it consumes what emotions you have and I am to the point where it controls me and I feel nothing when I'm angry and I don't have control of my feelings or actions. Right I need someone to talk to and just listen is I want and maybe just maybe find that spot where everything clicks and I have that aha moment. Where everything makes sense and I figure out what makes me so d@#$ angry all time. So I may just take you up on that offer and use you as a sounding board and a listener. You don't even have to give a big reply just let me know that you read my post and means that someone cares enough to read my venting. Thank you
@BeeFree82 I am so glad you found 7cups helpful. It is a great site. It has some wonderful people.
@BeeFree82
So happy to know you are so aware Bout yourself and willing to work on it. That big steps you took. It not easy believe me.
With right tools and good support you will overcome all this too. I believe in you. I could see ..peace is there to support you. peace is very good listener i had attend few of their mindfulness session. Good luck dear.
That's sad
🍃I wish you the best on whatever you decide. Make sure to take care of your self. And also remember that 7 Cups has a self care break option if you just wanted to take a break and return later. We'll always be here for you. 🍃
@HipsterChic
Okay thanks 🙏 I will look into that 😊🙂.
You’re welcome Bee.🙂
@BeeFree82 Some issues are not understood well, it hurts so much to get no help and everyone acts like they are trying so hard. That's the worst for me too
@Screenname333
Hi everybody copying mechanism is different.. i too used to compare with other and always lend up upset as i took time in healing many of my issue. So until and unless you are trying slow n bit also it totally okay. Feel proud of it.