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I tried... I couldn't do it

triste.gifI got 5 or 6 days clean of vaping but I couldn't do it... i feel so sick of myself

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HopieRemi May 2nd

@JasperTheGreat

Hey! hey!   it is not an easy process. What do you feel is making it where you can't do it? Do you have any support around you? What's your motivation right now?

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JasperTheGreat OP May 3rd

@HopieRemi

Honestly, I'm only 14. I only started because everyone told me it helped with stress and focus. I had to hide stuff from my parents and I got in a lot of trouble when I was caught. Even after I got caught, I got another one. It got to the point that I would steal money from my parents to get another one from a kid I know. My motivation is that I am trying to have a better life and I want to be good for the up-comming volleyball season at my school. I have friends that want me to quit and I have friends that also vape and don't care if I stop.

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HopieRemi May 3rd

I see’ well peer pressure can definitely make it hard to quit. You are definitely young so stopping would be very good for you. Sounds like you are excited about volleyball. Can you surround yourself with the friends who want you to stop vaping?

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JasperTheGreat OP May 3rd

@HopieRemi

yeah, I don't have many friends but there are a few i know

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LittleSodo May 4th
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling discouraged after struggling to stay clean from vaping. It's important to recognize that setbacks are a natural part of the process. Instead of dwelling on feelings of guilt or shame, try to focus on the positive steps you've taken and the determination you've shown in your efforts to quit vaping. Remember, recovery is a process, and every step forward, no matter how small, is a victory worth celebrating. Be patient with yourself, and know that you're not alone in this journey.
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JasperTheGreat OP May 7th

@LittleSodo

TYSM <3

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ShyDrag0n June 1st

@JasperTheGreat

By far the easiest way to quit is get of disposables and onto pods and work your way down from 2% nic to 1.6% to 1.2% and so on till you reach zero. It actually works, unlike gum or patches. Once you have done that you can just work on the hand to mouth motion maybe by *** on a pencil or a pen everytime you feel you need to take a drag.


I still smoke and vape but I've accidentally got down to very low nicotine %, without noticing, doing this.


Hope it works (:

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HopieRemi June 3rd

@ShyDrag0n

I agree, tapering is a great way to curb withdrawal symptoms

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JasperTheGreat OP August 23rd

@HopieRemi     I'll try that (Sorry i was on summer break

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HopieRemi August 23rd

@JasperTheGreat

You are fine

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Cynthialy June 11th

@JasperTheGreat Hi, hope you are doing well. Relapse is a part of the journey, we all have days when we go back to previous behavioural patterns but the fact that you are here sharing and motivated to do the work on healing shows you are already so amazing and admirable. 

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JasperTheGreat OP August 23rd

@Cynthialy tysm for the support

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aCalmOasis June 14th

@JasperTheGreat

Hey there, I read through the other comments and you have had some great suggestions and encouragements. The only thing I can think of to add is to propose that you try making small daily promises to yourself. It can go something like this.. "today I won't pick up my vape and use it" and if you get through that day without doing that you reward yourself in some way that appeals to you, like by having your favorite treat or something. You can slowly increase the length of days to keep your promise, like try to make it two days without vaping, reward yourself if you succeed and see how it goes for you. 

Nicotine is one of the most addictive substances out there and its a really tough habit to break. So be gentle with yourself while you take your steps to quitting. I have seen these necklaces now that you can buy that can help you quit. Whenever you have that stress response creep up you can grab the necklace around your neck and use it (looks sort of like a straw with a hole in the top like a whistle) to take a deep breath. So it slowly starts retraining your brain by using mindfulness instead of using nicotine. 

Best of luck in your recovery journey, you got this!

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JasperTheGreat OP August 23rd

@aCalmOasis  Tank you so so much for the support

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