College is a Bureaucratic Nightmare

@FrostFeather

Dear Feather,

It must be so frustrating retaking this so many times and still not being able to finish the degree... You have put so much work into this. I am by no means suggesting that you should stop pursuing it (that is only and only yours to decide!) and whatsmore, for the most part I am always advocating to get up, no matter how many failures bring us down.

You will have to decide for yourself if the degree is worth your tears, your time, and above all, your mental-health. If the answer to this question is YES, before you pursue the degree, I think you would really benefit from a break and giving yourself some time to appreciate all the hard work you have done. You deserve some rest.

I am rooting for you, that you will finish your degree... I believe that you can do it. Sending you lots of support ❤️ take care and speak kindly to yourself!

I want a degree more than anything! It doesn't even benefit me: I just want a trophy for all the pain and suffering I've been through. But there's always something in my way. I've worked so hard... It's not fair...

Usually you aren't able to take the second course before completing the first (intro) course. If the Intro course is all you're missing with the degree, couldn't you just take that missing course?.. I'm confused what is stopping you. Take a breather, step outside the box for some time. See what this degree means to you. Knowing what course is missing for you to complete the degree, you could take that missing course. Make sure with your college that is what they're looking for. Or find out to see if there are any other options or requirements that you are missing for the degree, and just focus on that.

You've been through all the rough times in taking all the courses for your degree, don't give up now. Struggling to finish the degree for the past year, it could act as a drive for you to want to do anything to complete that missing requirement and to do it asap. Good luck!~

@FrostFeather

@Jaeteuk

@Jaeteuk

I appreciate you taking the time to reply, but I suppose this is why I'm having this problem. It seems simple to others: oh, it's just one class, it's just one more test, it's just the rules, just a little bit longer. I've been telling myself that for the past 10 years. I'm at the very end of my rope, and I just wish someone would throw me a bone already. The college has the ability to override the requirement, it's not like they can't.

It sounds like your college is very irresponsible. What kind of school wouldn't want students to be able to finish a Degree and graduate? This may or may not be an option, but are you able to somehow transfer to another college, with all your completed courses so far, and finish the degree at another institute? At a college that's more reasonable and doesn't give you a hard to time to finish off your degree?

@FrostFeather

@Jaeteuk

I wouldn't say my college is irresponsible, just indiscriminately following the rules. I actually transferred to my current college because it's my favorite college (I've attended several colleges in pursuit of different degrees), after transferring from a school that treated me like I was disposable. I was hoping that it would be a straight shot to a degree, but now I'm hung up on this stupid class. My academic career has been pretty fragmented, but I would've taken the first class 10 years ago if I knew what problems it would cause me in the future!

My counselor is really nice and is trying to help me, but she doesn't have the power to waive a class herself. I hope someone higher up is sympathetic to my situation.

I see. Well, you've been battling with finishing this degree for so long, I hope your college has someone suitable to help you waiver this class so you can finally graduate. Have you spoken with the Dean of the degree? Or whoever is the authority-level of the whole degree. Maybe you can speak with him/her about your situation, and see if they can do something about it.

@FrostFeather

@Jaeteuk

My counselor is actually helping me talk to the dean. The dean so far seems like she would be willing to substitute the credits with one of the billion other classes I've taken if I can provide good examples of writing. I'm really hopeful, but then again, I've been burned before. So we'll see what happens.

Yayyyy!!!!!!! They gave me the credit!! I'm going to graduate!

I am so relieved.😊

They were super nice to me too. This is why this college is my favorite!

Congratulations! Very happy for you!~

@FrostFeather