Remembering Tazzie
It is with a sad heart that I share with you all that Tazzie has passed. Tazzie was an active listener that joined us in September 2016. In this role, she helped over 272 members. She also served as a leader on our platform and most recently as an admin focusing on our sub-communities. We don’t track how many listeners other listeners help. It is safe to say that Tazzie has helped thousands of us.
You can see Tazzie’s spirit in her first post on 7 cups.
Hello! I am a trained active listener. I am doing a Masters in Counseling right now and I am enjoying school. I am here right now because I would just like to share a few positive words with everyone. Hope this adds to your happiness or makes you feel better :)
I draw from my inner strength and light.
I trust myself.
I have as much brightness to offer the world as the next person.
Best wishes,
Empatheticlistener88.
Tazzie shared music with me, encouraging messages, a stalwart hope, and a firm belief that we could redeem things and work hard to make things better. I read her listener reviews which you can find here. I see these same themes in the people she helped. This one stands out to me:
“Tazzie is the most incredible listener I've ever met. She is not only an amazing ambassador, but so incredibly kind, sweet, and gentle with me. I talked to her while having a breakdown, and she calmed me down fast. She encouraged me, and really made me feel loved and honoured with all her words of kindness and appreciation for me. I couldn't have asked for a better listener. She is incredibly strong at this and the world needs way more people like Tazzie. I believe in you.”
She was also great at capturing visuals. I’m not great at this. She sent me the below gif. This is the only gif I’ve ever downloaded onto my phone. I love it. You can sense the hope in it. Much more you can see her spirit in all of our birthday videos. Taz was a curator of the best of what makes 7 Cups 7 Cups. She could see strengths, light and hope in all of us in a rare and beautiful way.
I was surprised to hear of Tazzie’s passing. She had a terminal illness and did not share many details with me. I am not at all surprised to hear about how she has impacted many of you. I felt her belief in me and witnessed her belief in others. We will miss you Taz. Thank you for reminding us of the power of hope and light.
We have reached out to the family and we are awaiting details on how best we can provide support and make contributions. I will update this thread as soon as we hear more. Thank you and please share any thoughts below that you would like us to share with her family.
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Heather:
It is with deepest sorrow that we heard the passing of our beloved friend, Tazzie.
Tazzie, our Subcommunity Admin, was living with a terminal condition, and despite that, she managed to accomplish incredible feats. 7 Cups was her passion, and she put her heart and soul into serving for our community in a way that you can see ripple across the site. She has touched countless lives here in her time on Cups. I am honored to have worked closely with her and to see her level of care in action every day. I have always stood in awe of Tazzie’s strength, grit, and ambition.
Tazzie is most known here for her dedication to the subcommunities. She’s also the creative behind our birthday videos over the last few years.
Our subcommunities wouldn’t be even half of what they are now without all the love and work Tazzie poured into making them so great. A life so beautifully lived deserves to be beautifully remembered, and Tazzie will forever be a part of our community family.
Obs:
This is an unfortunate and huge loss for all of us. It was shocking and unexpected to hear it. She made a huge impact through her efforts, dedication and commitment in the community. Her biggest contribution was that she went above and beyond to improve the subcommunities and made it a better place for all to seek support and compassion.
Once Tazzie and I were discussing a few things and I told her that she is the Subcommunity Queen and how much we appreciate her. And, she responded that she is Just Tazzie. And in our following conversations we used to greet each other as, “Hello JustTazzie/ JustT” and she used to reply, “Hey O”. She was an amazing friend and colleague.
But, even though she used to say she was just Tazzie, we all know that she is “The Tazzie”. She is irreplaceable and there are not enough words to express the gratitude for her presence and being with us all these years as a friend and a leader. She is part of the 7Cups Family and she will always be!
May she rest in peace. I miss her...
Hope:
Taz’s demise has been a huge loss for the community team, the leaders she worked with and the community as a whole. I have had the honor of knowing Taz since the beginning of her journey. She has been a committed listener, mentor and then leader in many domains of which her work with sub-communities is the most known. She is one of the most genuine and hardworking people that I have ever met. Despite her illness, she fought on bravely and held onto hope.
I got to work closely with her when she was a sub-community ambassador and her passion and enthusiasm for sub-communities was exceptional. She dedicated a lot of her time to providing care and support to our community. I have shared many fond memories with her, from the time when we used to provide peer support in the Listener Support Room to working on sub-communities together. She believed in the work she did and I am glad she was able to do the work she loved as an admin these past few months. It is unreal having to write this message but I hope that as we remember her, we can think of all the good memories that will stay with us even if she isn’t here anymore. Rest in peace Taz, You will be missed.
@GlenM
Well, I guess for me today I know. Today is the day that I have finally, truly been crushed here on 7 cups. The universe has spoken and maybe this was the sign I was supposed to see today. Kind of makes complete sense now.
In honor of Tazzie, I would like to say that they are one of the most kind and gentle people I have ever encountered on this site. ❤️ I remember the first time I met them, I guess they had watched me for sometime in the LSR unbeknownst to me. Something awful had happened to me, I had been harassed by someone in the room and for some time and in pm's by that same person and so I just went and sat by myself in the Listener Community Room. This is where Tazzie found me.
You know, she asked me if I was okay. I said yes as to not be a problem for anyone around here. She knew differently. She could tell. She told me "Giz, you just aren't your same Sparky self sitting here by yourself, all alone. I know something is wrong, you can trust me and we can talk about it".
Tazzie gave me a soft spot to land. Spending that time with Tazzie was one of the most powerful moments I have ever had on this site. And I reminded them of that so many times. I promised them I would never forget that kindness. They told me (among other things) "Giz, I want you to remember that things that happen around here to you are 99% about them and only 1% about you. Don't you ever let any of them blow out your flame as you are shining so very brightly". At that time, Tazzie had a candle as their dp.
Clearly, with hearing this news today, I have to acknowledge that my flame has been extinguished. Not shining brightly so much now.
@SparkyGizmo mate pm me I got you. Hugs.
@HopieRemi
Hopie,😊❤️ *high fives* and big *hugs* ❤️❤️❤️ Now is just the start to my day here on 7 cups, but as the day moves on, I'm going to take you up on your incredibly kind offer, come and sit with you, spend time with someone else that cares about me too. ❤️
@SparkyGizmo I will be waiting here with hot chocolate! This is a tough time. Together we can get through it
@SparkyGizmo
Your flame can come back sparky.. it just needs time . A lot of us need time.
@AllieSunshine
Many thanks my friend! 😊❤️ I send you big *hugs* ❤️
@GlenM
This is just truly so sad. Very disheartening to hear.....😢 Just too much of this recently. Its alot to take in. So many thoughts and prayers (and condolences) for Tazzie's family.
May she rest in peace.
@PoliteOcean
Yes, it is just too much to take in 😢
@GlenM
This indeed is a heartbreaking news. Tazzie was a great mentor and an awesome friend. She had a lovely spirit and soul that we all surely have felt dealing with her. She surely will be missed a lot. May she rest in peace.
Tazzie gave so much of herself here. She touched so many. Condolences to her family.
I will miss Taz so much. It is a shock to have read this when I just woke up. I think it is a shock for everyone. I’ll miss working with her and hearing her words of wisdom. I will miss her kindness and fun during chats.
I have not seen such a hard-working and passionate person as Taz in a very, very long time. I think everyone can agree with that. Her enthusiasm for the subcommunities is so clearly seen and noted.
I regret not speaking to her more once she became admin (and consequently not my subcom’s leader). To whoever reads this, speak more to the ones you care about/like on 7 Cups. ❤️
@rebecca947
Remember your loved. It was a shock for me to read this and it was a shock in 2020 for me to read about Amelia. Butt much like with Amelia , we will continue to thrive off of the impact that Tazzie made.
Aw @rebecca947 ,offers a hug.
" speak more to the ones you care about/like on 7 Cups. ❤️ " --- such a beautiful reminder ,very much on board with this !! ❤
Rest in peace Tazzie.
You lived well a life of purpose.
'OM'
@GlenM thank you for letting us know. I am so shocked by this as she has been such a huge part of this community (as she will continue to be through her lasting impact <3) my heart goes out to her friends and family and all those who she has impacted in those wonderful ways <3 I will always remember her kindness through my listener journey as im sure many others will too.
This news is definitely a massive shock to the community and Tazzie was so inspirational towards many users on 7Cups. We are all going to miss you so much. I send love and condolences to the family.
This is a big shock. It hurts that such a kind, lovely and supportive person is not with us anymore.
My heart goes out to her family.