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Hope August 19th, 2020

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edited by ASilentObserver as of Feb 17, 2021

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WowMerosa April 11th, 2021

Helloo I'm Merosa, I was trying to find some sort of website I could either find a friend or talk to someone and I came across this site. Uh yeah. I'm super awkward but I swear I get better, I guess I'm the kind of person that would text someone at three in the morning asking what would have happened if people had their legs as arms. Random I guess. Oh yeah I'm also 15 soo if you need a friend then yes.

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Suryansh July 4th, 2021

@WowMerosa

Welcome to the 7 Cups as a Member Red heart We are so glad to have you here! Here is a Welcome Pack for you: (click-me)

Be the change that you wish to see in the world.

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prettyinred3 April 12th, 2021

Grand Evening everyone,

I was searching the World Wide Web for a group to join for breaking up with someone. It's so hard to go on day to day. I just can't remember what the heck I was doing before I met him. I met him back in 1991 it's been 30 years. I don't think were a couple. Lately, we just bee seeing each other, and I don't know "what we are". He own his own business, so he say he work and he don't have time for "nothing". He'll text me late at night aroud the time he get off of work which is usually around 3:00 am and the text would read as follow "U STILL UP". I decided on April 9, 2021 to just let him go. He never check on me throughout the day with text with "how you doing-just thinking of you". I feel so empty, and when I'm having a long and bad day, I can't call him, well I don't call him. I know he won't answer the phone unti later around 11:00pm, and his excuse would be "I was working". I need someone to be available, emtionally, mentally, and physically.

He doesn't even know I'm throughing in the towel. I haven't spoken to him since April 3, 2021. I'm done...

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jojo77times April 12th, 2021

@prettyinred3 sorry to hear you have been challenged with such a long term relationship. But it does seem like things are not in a good place, and if there is no room to attempt honest, direct, and compassionate communication about the future with consideration toward reconciliation, it may be best to address your transition toward a healthy individual life and move on to a better path. Either way, healthy communication can lead to change for the better whether or not there is a future together. Best of luck to you, and may you find the support you need.

Sincere break-ups are never easy for either side. No matter how done you may be, it takes courage to communicate and face the transitions ahead. One day at a time, and stay well if it's of any use hearing it from a newbie.

Larysa April 14th, 2021

@prettyinred3

You do need someone who is available to you. Otherwise, well, you can just buy a TV. Then at least you can turn that on when you want it on.

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latournesol April 12th, 2021

I'm Seoyeon and I'm new in here. I hope I can help at least a few people. Thank you so much to everyone who gave me a warm welcome. I really appreciate it🤗

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sunnyhere May 7th, 2021

@mintandroses004 Hello Seoyeon, welcome!!

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jojo77times April 12th, 2021

Somewhat tenative on my introduction here, but it seems like a warm environment and perhaps at some point I may be able to offer some support myself. I am working through some challenges in a relationship and when my partner does not want to talk and try to work through some issues, I get shut out and left alone for the night. In the past I would lose my cool but I have long realized that it does not help anyone when that happens so I have tried to turn to more constructive activities like finding websites like this. We attend counseling already but we are working through other family issues mostly and not dealing with issues between us which is likely part of the problem. The other family issues are quite pressing at the moment, but we need to get some time for us in soon I think.

I am appreciating this as an alternative outlet for those nights when I am left alone to deal with my feelings on my own. Kudos to the listeners who are taking the time to be there for others. Appreciate those who allow for these support groups to exists and I hope I may one day pay it forward. Thank you.

Ar1985 April 12th, 2021

Hi ..good day, Im AR 1985, big warm welcome to 7 cups...

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RayneSystem April 13th, 2021

@Ar1985 Hi there AR 1985, welcome!

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divyab9 April 12th, 2021

Loneliness

CBRNSWCULA April 13th, 2021

Hello, I am here to listen to anyone who may want to vent. Life can be challenging.

softcherrybomb April 13th, 2021

hi y'all,

i'm new to this community. a mutual had introduced me to this a few weeks ago. however, i now time to join. i'm excited to be here, hehe : ]

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ThatoCares April 20th, 2021

@softcherrybomb welcome aboard, we're excited to have you as part of the helping community💜

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fruityButton4144 April 13th, 2021

Hi, I'm Buttons, nice to meet everyone.

toughPenguin4262 April 13th, 2021

hi iam a good lisiner