how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)
I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.
It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be
you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.
and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.
I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.
if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.
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I've been clean for about 3-4 weeks! It's the first time I've been clean for this long.
@SweetPeachTea Yay that's fantastic! Keep on breaking the record! I'm really happy for you! ^^
I've been 4 days now without it. I know it's not a long time, but to me it feels like forever. I never realized I was addicted to sh, until someone saw my scars. Tomorrow will be day five and one step closer to stoping for good.
And for all you lovelies out there, remember I love you, and we can fight through this together. ❤️
Update:
i messed up today. I got upset and lost my self control. I feel bad for messing up cause I really want to stop. Now I have to start over.
Don't give up💙
@compassionateLychee8039 Ah, it's okay, we all feel down from time to time. However, I'm really happy to see that you're so determined not to do it again! It's comforting to hear that and I believe in you! You can walk out of this!
One month. I know I can stay away from self-harming thanks to healthier coping skills. I am having more control over my life now and feel proud for being able to stop my addiction.
@Sister3 I'm really proud of you too and I'm glad that you managed to find other healthier coping techniques! Keep up the great work!
i relapsed yesterday ._.
@Shiro54 It's okay, we can all feel down sometimes. Don't be discouraged by this setback and try again! Take small steps at a time, and you'll eventually walk out of this! I have confidence in you!
It was almost 4 months, but now 1 day...
@poohbear15 Aww, it's okay, we all have bad days sometimes. Don't be discouraged by this, you have been doing a great job for the 4 months! You can walk out of this, I believe in you! ^^
I've been one year clean I went from not able to stay clean for more than a day then to a few days then to weeks then I kept going from 3-4 months but ended up self harming in the end but I deserve to be happy so I threw everything out and it's been tough and I've gotten the thoughts to release but kept strong this has been the hardest year but the year I've moved forward a lot and kept strong
@hardworkingGrapefruit904 Hey that's really awesome and I'm proud of you! You persisted despite how hard it is and that's really laudable! Keep strong and keep moving forward! You have been doing a fantastic job and keep it up!
couple days, maybe a week :)
@FuturePsychologist2 Great job for the past few days (or a week)! Keep it up and continue fighting!
@YayyySphere Thank you :)
5 days. But I promised myself this is the LAST, so I threw away my razor. I feel really good. :)
@Alwayskeepfighting193 I'm really proud of your determination to make this the last time! You're doing a great job and I'm confident that you can walk out of this!
It was 3 months until last week 😔
@2cw16
Look how far you got last time.. 3 months was amazing.. and things they happen, we relapse and then we make it.. Keep going. things will get better! I'm proud of you!!
I've been able to stop myself from cutting for about 1 month, after years of doing it
@Karenbeth320
Well done for being able to stop after doing it for so long.. That is wonderful news! Keep strong and keep fighting!