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how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle April 29th, 2015

I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.

It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be

you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.

and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.

I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.

if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.

Hope you are liking all the cute cat pictures! [v] here is your next clue, where can you introduce yourself if you're new to the subcommunity this month?

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User Profile: SweetPeachTea
SweetPeachTea October 31st, 2015

I've been clean for about 3-4 weeks! It's the first time I've been clean for this long.

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User Profile: YayyySphere
YayyySphere November 2nd, 2015

@SweetPeachTea Yay that's fantastic! Keep on breaking the record! laugh I'm really happy for you! ^^

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User Profile: compassionateLychee8039
compassionateLychee8039 November 1st, 2015

I've been 4 days now without it. I know it's not a long time, but to me it feels like forever. I never realized I was addicted to sh, until someone saw my scars. Tomorrow will be day five and one step closer to stoping for good.

And for all you lovelies out there, remember I love you, and we can fight through this together. ❤️

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User Profile: compassionateLychee8039
compassionateLychee8039 November 1st, 2015

Update:

i messed up today. I got upset and lost my self control. I feel bad for messing up cause I really want to stop. Now I have to start over.

Don't give up💙

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User Profile: YayyySphere
YayyySphere November 2nd, 2015

@compassionateLychee8039 Ah, it's okay, we all feel down from time to time. However, I'm really happy to see that you're so determined not to do it again! laugh It's comforting to hear that and I believe in you! You can walk out of this! smiley

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User Profile: Sister3
Sister3 November 1st, 2015

One month. I know I can stay away from self-harming thanks to healthier coping skills. I am having more control over my life now and feel proud for being able to stop my addiction.

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User Profile: YayyySphere
YayyySphere November 2nd, 2015

@Sister3 I'm really proud of you too and I'm glad that you managed to find other healthier coping techniques! Keep up the great work! laugh

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User Profile: Shiro54
Shiro54 November 1st, 2015

i relapsed yesterday ._.

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User Profile: YayyySphere
YayyySphere November 2nd, 2015

@Shiro54 It's okay, we can all feel down sometimes. Don't be discouraged by this setback and try again! smiley Take small steps at a time, and you'll eventually walk out of this! I have confidence in you!

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User Profile: poohbear15
poohbear15 November 2nd, 2015

It was almost 4 months, but now 1 day...

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User Profile: YayyySphere
YayyySphere November 2nd, 2015

@poohbear15 Aww, it's okay, we all have bad days sometimes. Don't be discouraged by this, you have been doing a great job for the 4 months! laugh You can walk out of this, I believe in you! ^^

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User Profile: hardworkingGrapefruit904
hardworkingGrapefruit904 November 2nd, 2015

I've been one year clean I went from not able to stay clean for more than a day then to a few days then to weeks then I kept going from 3-4 months but ended up self harming in the end but I deserve to be happy so I threw everything out and it's been tough and I've gotten the thoughts to release but kept strong this has been the hardest year but the year I've moved forward a lot and kept strong

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User Profile: YayyySphere
YayyySphere November 2nd, 2015

@hardworkingGrapefruit904 Hey that's really awesome and I'm proud of you! You persisted despite how hard it is and that's really laudable! Keep strong and keep moving forward! You have been doing a fantastic job and keep it up! laugh

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November 2nd, 2015

couple days, maybe a week :)

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User Profile: YayyySphere
YayyySphere November 2nd, 2015

@FuturePsychologist2 Great job for the past few days (or a week)! smiley Keep it up and continue fighting! laugh

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November 2nd, 2015

@YayyySphere Thank you :)

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User Profile: Alwayskeepfighting193
Alwayskeepfighting193 November 2nd, 2015

5 days. But I promised myself this is the LAST, so I threw away my razor. I feel really good. :)

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User Profile: YayyySphere
YayyySphere November 2nd, 2015

@Alwayskeepfighting193 I'm really proud of your determination to make this the last time! laugh You're doing a great job and I'm confident that you can walk out of this!

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User Profile: 2cw16
2cw16 November 4th, 2015

It was 3 months until last week 😔

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User Profile: StormDancer
StormDancer November 4th, 2015

@2cw16

Look how far you got last time.. 3 months was amazing.. and things they happen, we relapse and then we make it.. Keep going. things will get better! I'm proud of you!!

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User Profile: Karenbeth320
Karenbeth320 November 4th, 2015

I've been able to stop myself from cutting for about 1 month, after years of doing it

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User Profile: StormDancer
StormDancer November 4th, 2015

@Karenbeth320

Well done for being able to stop after doing it for so long.. That is wonderful news! Keep strong and keep fighting!

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