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how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle April 29th, 2015

I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.

It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be

you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.

and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.

I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.

if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.

Hope you are liking all the cute cat pictures! [v] here is your next clue, where can you introduce yourself if you're new to the subcommunity this month?

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User Profile: determinedHickory6346
determinedHickory6346 July 6th, 2015

Under or around a year. It gets easier guys. It honestly truly does. The thought will be there, but the urge will fade. It was a habit and addiction. Your coping mechanism. When things get tough your first thought will be to hurt yourself, but you need to retrain yourself and end the habit. It's the same kind of process if you were to quit smoking. (Which don't pick that up to replace harming, it makes things difficult.) You can do this guys. It's ok if you slip up, relapse, it happens so don't beat yourself up over it. It's all practice.

User Profile: BrightSummer889
BrightSummer889 July 6th, 2015

13​ days clean !!! =D

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User Profile: helpfulHickory6537
helpfulHickory6537 July 6th, 2015

Congratulations! Stay strong

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User Profile: BrightSummer889
BrightSummer889 July 6th, 2015

helpfulHickory6537@ Thanks, I have found the butterfly project to be really helpful (:

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User Profile: helpfulHickory6537
helpfulHickory6537 July 6th, 2015

One month!

User Profile: TheWhiteTiger
TheWhiteTiger July 6th, 2015

Clean for three weeks, until today...

User Profile: basketball290
basketball290 July 6th, 2015

22 days ):

User Profile: basketball290
basketball290 July 7th, 2015

23 days

User Profile: quietCranberry5700
quietCranberry5700 July 7th, 2015

41days but really struggling

User Profile: afanNeto
afanNeto July 7th, 2015

4 years

User Profile: BrightSummer889
BrightSummer889 July 7th, 2015

4 1/2 hours clean... :(

User Profile: Kylie1999
Kylie1999 July 7th, 2015

one week and three days