how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)
I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.
It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be
you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.
and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.
I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.
if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.
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About an hour
relapses happen stay strong.
Nine years since the light at the end of the tunnel.
so its been 9 yrsclean? that is amazing
Yup. Anyone can end the cycle when they get the help they need.
6 days
6 days is great, stay strong, you can make it.
12 days so far
That's Absoutley AMAZING!!! Hun I am so very proud of you (= keep fighting ! Darling
12 days is amazing, keep it up!
Six months... Well idk now
thats amazing, keep it up
One day.
relapses do happen, it doesnt make you weak though, you can start again. stay strong!
4 days
4 days is great, keep it up, stay strong!
About a week and I'm struggling.
a week is great, be proud. have you tried any alternatives? because youre struggling, it doesnt mean you are weak, remember that.
if my knife wasn't sharp enough and it didn't break my skin am I clean?..
you didnt break the skin so i suppose not, but if you felt pain, it would be because you are still causing yourself pain. it depends really on person you ask. the definition isdeliberate injury to oneself.
oh ok, well if it does count.. 40mins ago.. if not around 2hrs..
If your purpose had been to cut than no you would not be clean, you were trying to self harm and just because it doesnt leave a mark doesn't mean it doesnt count. Stay strong lovely, I believe in you
..thank you.. I needed that
Even if i did count everyone starts somewhere. Relapses happen.
I stopped cutting, ended up going through fits where I'll grab my skin with my nails and won't let go, now when it gets worse, I over eat and cry...is this really a better solution?
I'm still struggling, but I've gone almost a whole month without opening my flesh, however, the over eating has taken its place now..
youve replaced the addiction with food. you could possibly try replacing it with punching a pillow or something... both addictions can be bad and i know how hard it is to stop. asking for help in real life might be a lot easier, they can come up with food plans and help you.
