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how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle April 29th, 2015

I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.

It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be

you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.

and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.

I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.

if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.

Hope you are liking all the cute cat pictures! [v] here is your next clue, where can you introduce yourself if you're new to the subcommunity this month?

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User Profile: quietCranberry5700
quietCranberry5700 October 8th, 2015

I made it a whole week

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User Profile: StormDancer
StormDancer October 8th, 2015

A whole week .. Yay!!! That's awesome Hun. You should be proud of yourself, I know I am!! Well done are keep it up

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User Profile: Lioness92
Lioness92 October 8th, 2015

I'm off and on. The longest I went was a few years, then a few months and now I've relapsed.

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User Profile: StormDancer
StormDancer October 8th, 2015

Well done for posting in here, we are all very happy and proud of you. Don't be mad or angry that you relapsed, that comes with getting better! Keep strong and keep fighting <3

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User Profile: blurryface13
blurryface13 October 8th, 2015

I was two weeks clean, but I blew it all tonight.

User Profile: Wherearetheroses87
Wherearetheroses87 October 8th, 2015

4 years this December. Not a day goes by that I don't think about it unfortunately.

User Profile: Thatawesomeguy
Thatawesomeguy October 8th, 2015

Nine days

User Profile: painedpartner
painedpartner October 8th, 2015

14 years. Relapsed last night.

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User Profile: Chiaroscuro1
Chiaroscuro1 October 8th, 2015

14 years is incredible! What happened to cause the relapse?

User Profile: carefulTiger1351
carefulTiger1351 October 12th, 2015

@painedpartner That's amazing that you got to 14 years! What's the reason for your relapse? Always remember to stay strong and get back to that 14 year mark!

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User Profile: Candyes
Candyes October 8th, 2015

About 11 years without anything serious. I've recently learned a trick that kept me from relapsing just now: if you feel the need to harm yourself, hold an ice cube instead. Or something equally cold.

User Profile: rowanisbecomingok
rowanisbecomingok October 9th, 2015

2 weekS and one day have made it a full year before but ended up starting agaiin

User Profile: pocketowl20401
pocketowl20401 October 9th, 2015

I posted earlier about a year but I relapsed last night. Back to one day

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User Profile: mjiyn2010
mjiyn2010 October 9th, 2015

@pocketowl20401 Relapse happens, it's just part of the process. You just always have to be willing to start again. You got this.

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User Profile: JustAShadow
JustAShadow October 10th, 2015

4 months. I relapsed today...

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User Profile: JustAShadow
JustAShadow October 14th, 2015

Well, I was doing good. Great, actually. I get these voices in my head that tell me to harm myself, but I tried my best to resist them. I feared that, if I so much as did it for a second, I would become addicted again. And, I think I am... It's only been 3 days since my last encounter. Out of those 4 days (including the day it occurred), I've harmed 3 times. :/ The worst part is... I don't even feel it! My body is just numb now. I only feel it when I am removing or putting on pants. Other than that... I can go an entire day and forget that fresh cuts are there. What is wrong with me..?

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