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Coping Techniques

OllieRNLI999 November 27th, 2023

Self harm can seem like a permanent issue to a temporary problem. But worry not! Here, I have gathered some useful coping mechanisms for you to try, if you struggle with self harm. Remember, self harm is nothing to be ashamed of. 


  • Draw around/on the area you would like to self harm -This can stimulate those urges. 
  • Write a pros and cons list surrounding self harm, e.g. why you do it, how it makes you feel. 
  • When you feel in a good place, write a letter describing what you like about yourself. Then read it when you want to harm yourself. 
  • Message your friends and ask to meet them. The social aspect of life is a good distraction. 
  • Go outside -Being in touch with nature and releasing your bodies endorphins is healthy for the mind. 
  • Try some grounding techniques, such as putting your hands in ice cold water, or square breathing. 
  • Low risk such as punching a pillow, or holding an ice cube until it melts. 

Remember, if you are unable to use these and feel like harming yourself, please reach out to a crisis helpline. 

🌈These are all positive steps in the right direction, so give it a try! (:

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CaringEzra November 28th, 2023

@OllieRNLI999 

Thanks for this awesome list of alternative coping skills to self harm. Recovery can be so hard and anyone that is on this journey know that you are not alone. Not all coping strategy's will work for you and thats okie! Keep trying different things out until you find what works for *you*. It's different for everyone. Another technique that I have used is to put on a timer for XYZ seconds/minutes and reassess when the timer has ring. *Sending love and peace beams to you all*

etherealize December 5th, 2023

Thank you for this’ I’m going to save them for later