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sometimes i wish my friend wouldnt ignore me for too long

because i'm an overthinker :( with low self esteem andd trust issue

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 Wednesday

@hopefulencounter

How long is too long?   is that something you can talk with friend and ask them to respond in a small way just until they have time to respond fully to whatever conversation you are having. 

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP Wednesday

@toughTiger6481 sometimes it takes them days to reply, ..while i wait i usually overthink like "can i really trust this person?" "why is she not replying after 12 hours? did i say something wrong?" 

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 Wednesday

@hopefulencounter

I know how frustrating it can be ... i have had people not respond before and was many reasons they couldn't so instead of assuming it was me i thought about other items...

Examples:    include power was out , my friend was saving phone in case of emergency rather then texting back and forth with me...  one area not far from my area is a dead zone and friend worked and traveled thru that sometimes text did not come thru for hours when they exited that area. 

i turn off sound for my phone at work and if i do not look at it when i leave for day i have left ringer sound off and miss text / calls not on purpose...   

many many possibilities besides something someone said. 

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP Wednesday

@toughTiger6481 i see.. well, in my case it's kinda weird because our chat got cut off in the middle of my friend's question. So i feel like she's suddenly losing interest in me. And she's mostly online so I don't know why. I just hope everything's ok, if she wants to stop replying then thats ok.. i hope she won't bother me again 😅 maybe it's better if i completely cut off friendships with her

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 3 days ago

@hopefulencounter

I agree IF someone wants to stop chatting online with someone she should be upfront and honest about it. is cleaner for everyone.

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP 3 days ago

@toughTiger6481 riiightt? it's so tiring to be uncertain like this all the time 😂😂😂😂

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 Wednesday

@hopefulencounter aww I'm sorry sweetie 🙁 I'm sure your friend loves you ❤ sometimes just life gets in the way, it's ok to ring her you know🙂 gives you a giant tiny hug ❤

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP Wednesday

@Tinywhisper11 that's what i hope too, i hope it's okay maybe she's just busy. and if she doesn't reply for more than 1 day then i'll surely try to chat her again :""

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 Wednesday

@hopefulencounter yep! She's probably busy ❤ I bet people would be lining up to be your friend, gives you a giant tiny hug ❤

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