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XneedsHelp November 17th

Today, my step-daughter passed away. Even though my ex left me, I was there for her. Please keep their family in yours thoughts and prayers. I thank everyone who is my 7cups friends or who just passed by my posts and read them. 

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mytwistedsoul November 17th

@XneedsHelp I'm so sorry for your loss. It's never easy to lose a loved one. I'm sure your stepdaughter was so grateful that you could be there for her to offer comfort and support. I'll light a candle and will keep you all in my thoughts

@XneedsHelp

Oh noes, that's quite disheartening to hear. Losing our dear ones is plain heartbreaking. :( 

Sending y'all lots of love and strength, and ofcourse keeping in thoughts. 💛

Please do continue reaching out for support whether via forums, chatrooms or personal chats with listeners here~ it truly is a brave thing to do, and I'm super proud of you for it.💛

Drifterbynature November 17th

So sorry man

Tinywhisper11 November 19th

@XneedsHelp awww honey 😥 that's heartbreaking I'm so sorry you couldn't be with her when it happened🙁 your a great dad to your kids and stepkids don't ever think otherwise. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers, I have been praying for you ever since we met ❤ I understand a bit about grief and although it's different for each of us, I'm right here for you ❤ holding your hand, you can talk to me ❤❤

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XneedsHelp OP November 19th

@Tinywhisper11 I was there. I heard her mom scream and I was laying in the garage. I ran upstairs to see what had happened because I’ve never heard her mom, my ex, scream like that before. I saw that she was in distress and administered CPR until police and first responders arrived. I held her in my arms the first 5 seconds before I started CPR. It was devastating. Unfortunately she was gone before they got her to the hospital. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😢😢😢😣😒😒. I was there, I tried so hard to stave off the inevitable. But I’ve learned that even helping and trying so hard, I can’t control everything. And thank you Whisper for the positive vibes you send….

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Tinywhisper11 November 19th

@XneedsHelp ohhh honey😥 having to see her like that, is traumatizing😥 thank God you were there, you tried your very best, while I'm sure her mum was in a panic 🙁 I watched my son die too, there was nothing I could do😥 gives you the biggest hug in the world ❤❤ she's in heaven now, a Angel, God will take care of her till the day you will see her again ❤ I'm here for you, always ❤

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XneedsHelp OP November 20th

@Tinywhisper11 O my goodness!!! I didn’t even know that you had a loss that close to you. And you still find ways for your light to shine through to us all on this site/app. You are now one of my true inspirations and I mean that. Seriously. I read your posts and your responses to people when it pops up and you’re so full of joy even when you are down. Whisper you are quite literally an awesome person. I don’t know how sincere I can sound in a virtual message but I want you to know I truly mean that. And I know all the people you have touched on here would agree!

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Tinywhisper11 November 21st

@XneedsHelp awww thanks sweetie ❤ and if you really look like Leo DiCaprio, then your one of my inspirations too😍😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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XneedsHelp OP November 21st

@Tinywhisper11 😂😂😂Nah…I kinda wish but I look nothing like Mr. DiCaprio. I will say I like many of his movies though. Kinda look like this with curly hair and a beard. Not that kool though  😩😂derek-morgan.gif

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Tinywhisper11 November 21st

@XneedsHelp well I bet you look very handsome ❤❤ plus your heart is beautiful ❤❤

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XneedsHelp OP November 21st

@Tinywhisper11 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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Tinywhisper11 November 21st

@XneedsHelp how are you doing today? How is your ex and the family taking it all?? I been praying for you ❤ hugs you extra tightly ❤

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XneedsHelp OP November 21st

@Tinywhisper11 It’s been rough. Because she was in and out of the hospital due to a few reasons, the aura of the house just feels like she at the hospital. However, I am preparing myself for Monday when reality really hits. That’s when we lay her to rest and the fact that she isn’t coming back will settle. This week has been tough, but next week I know will be more difficult than anything. 😒😒😒

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Tinywhisper11 November 21st

@XneedsHelp it's early days, it's a lot to try and process🙁 I'm so glad you found 7 cups, your not alone anymore, I'm right here for you, we all are ❤ I hope I'm home by Monday, so I can light a candle for her. You make sure you keep writing everything down here, it's better to get it all of your chest. I know there's nothing any of us can say it do to make things better right now, but we can listen. Sometimes just knowing that  your being heard can really help ❤ sits beside you and hugs you tightly ❤

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Tinywhisper11 November 22nd

@XneedsHelp hi sweetie ❤ I just wanted to check in on you ❤ and give you a giant tiny hug ❤❤

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XneedsHelp OP November 22nd

@Tinywhisper11 I’m ok considering and so is everyone else. Hanging in there. I thank you so very much!winnie-the-pooh-love.gif

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Tinywhisper11 November 23rd

@XneedsHelp I'm right here for you ok ❤❤

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Tinywhisper11 November 24th

@XneedsHelp I bet your really getting nervous and all worked up about tommorow🙁 I'm here if you need me ❤ in my thought and prayers ❤

Tinywhisper11 November 25th

@XneedsHelp thinking of you and your family ❤ praying that God helps  gets you through the day ❤I'm right here for you, you don't have to go through any of this by yourself ❤ hugs you tightly ❤❤

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XneedsHelp OP November 25th

@Tinywhisper11 I’m sorry I haven’t been on in a couple days. Kind of hectic here. Last night was the private viewing and I broke. I cried hard. Today is the day we lay her to rest. I’m helping with carrying her. God give me strength….😒😒😒

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Tinywhisper11 November 26th

@XneedsHelp no need to be sorry, I was just letting you know I was thinking about you ❤❤ bless you, crying is good though, let it all out let yourself go through the emotions ❤❤ God will give you strength, keeping you in my heart and prayers ❤

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