Hi everyone
I have always struggled with setting boundaries and when I take a stand I feel so guilty for doing it .. it’s seriously affecting my self esteem - does anyone else also feel the same ?
@littleSkies20
Hii there , beautiful person😊💖!!
I can absolutely understand how you feel. A lot of us have issues in setting up boundaries and saying no and stuff like that. Don't feel guilty about it , it's not really your fault. You re just really thoughtful and you might feel like if you set boundaries other people will get hurt etc. But sometimes you really gotta prioritize yourself over everything else. It's a part of self care and self love and it's absolutely fine to set boundaries , you re not at all hurting anyone or being rude by doing it. Others will be understanding towards you , don't you worry so much. It's a hard step to take but it's really important for yourself and it's also very much needed. So take your time , be kind to yourself , slowly slowly move towards it and soon you ll be able to set boundaries and that ll make a lot of things easier. Don't worry you got this !!😊💖
Hi there love … this is so reassuring but you know I tend to overthinking and to top it all when I define my boundaries things often escalate and rub people off in the wrong way … something like I don’t know how to define boundaries and if I do I severe relationships.. as a result I don’t have any close friends