Sexual Predator Victim
I recently realized that I am a victim of a sexual predator. He made me feel like he was my friend and slowly made me think talking about sexual things with him was ok. He was always making comments to me about how innocent and modest I am. He eventually got me to admit things to him that he wanted to know. He recently got me to *** with him and now he has been avoiding talking to me. It has been 3 weeks now and I don’t know if he will contact me again or not. He has done this ignoring me thing in the past and eventually came back. I just feel really used now and he manipulated me into being kind of obsessed with him. I am just really struggling with what to do.
I haven’t heard from anyone since I posted this. I was really hoping to get some replies and be able to talk to someone.
@passionateEast518 I am sorry you went thru this. Obviously, you see the truth for what it is. I advise that you sever all contact with this person. He manipulated you for as long as it took until he got what he wanted and now has cast you aside. He is not worthy of you or your time. To contact him or allow him to contact you will just fuel his sick ego. Block him in every way you can and reach out to friends and family that can help shield you from him.
@passionateEast518
No body deserves such treatment. I'm sorry that such a lovely soul as yourself had to go through something so terrible. Here is a resource I found helpful when reflecting upon my own relationships. It covers a bit of everything including abuse and unhealthy relationships. I hope this helps!
https://www.loveisrespect.org/
