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Relationships with traumatic people
Discreetlyburgundy May 16th, 2020
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I've noticed a pattern in the way I form long lasting relationships and friendships. I find people who dealt with traumatic childhoods, to be way easier to talk to and form closer connections with. The relationships are hardly toxic in nature, and often provide comfort for me emotionally. I find it easier to open up to them and even trust them with any problematic emotions. Just to clarify I've had a rough childhood as well. Could anyone tell me if this is normal or clarify why I feel deeper bonds with these kinds of people?

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wildflowxrs May 16th, 2020
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about it being normal - I personally don't think there's anything wrong with seeking relationships with people that you feel understand you better or make you feel good (you said they're healthy friendships and that's all that matters really)

RealityCzech May 16th, 2020
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We trust those who have walked the same roads as us. We can confide in those who have suffered as we have as they will not judge.

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