My daughters ex’s Dad is my Partner

@raspberryTangerine6846 This thing is really too complicated. No matter how you choose the final result should not be very good. I have always believed that when a person finds his love, he should pursue it bravely. But no matter what you choose in your current situation, one party will be uncomfortable. Now it can only depend on whether you feel that your love is important, or to avoid the embarrassment your daughter may have in the future.

I honestly believe you should make your relationship work first ........ grown children will develop their own lives and not be there for you always ... having someone to spend your later years with happily is the goal correct?

there will always be things that remind us of things we cannot avoid them all and life is complicated

@raspberryTangerine684,

you are entitled to happiness.

Feels to me your daughter is acting pretty selfish.

You should make clear to her you deserve happiness and you will not accept her standing in the way.

Tell her to get professional help if she is still struggling to cope with the breakup. Or stop and permit you and her to be happy. Put down your needs. Boundaries. Don't take any bullshit from her. Stand up for yourself.