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Feeling Insecure in a Relationship

imontheoutside January 22nd, 2017

Sometimes, in our relationship, we may see ourselves as not being good enough for our partner.

What advice would you give to someone who is insecure about themselves while they are in a relationship?

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SilentSerenityy January 22nd, 2017

@imontheoutside

I would tell them that their partner is with them for a reason; they see something in them they can't see, something they absolutely adore. :)

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imontheoutside OP January 23rd, 2017

@SilentSerenityy Indeed so. 💖

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2cupsofteaa January 23rd, 2017

I would remind them that a lot of this insecurity derives from oneself. Our thoughts can really have this way of picking apart our weaknesses, but just because we think it and feel a lack of confidence does not imply that we are indeed inadequate or unworthy of love in the relationship. Correlation does not equate to causation! :)

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imontheoutside OP January 24th, 2017

@2cupsofteaa I love what you just said. Amazing! Thank you for sharing it with us in this thread! 💖

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2cupsofteaa January 24th, 2017

@imontheoutside

Aww thanks! :) Thank you for making such a meaningful thread!

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wonderousHeart14 January 24th, 2017

@imontheoutside

Determine what it is they are insecure about and see if there are ways to feel better about themselves. If there's no way to change whatever it is, then maybe a more positive focus on the things they love about themselves.

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imontheoutside OP January 31st, 2017

@wonderousHeart14 This is definitely most important in each relationship we go through. ❤️

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