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@Deadtired2, I have some experience, as a Domme. Maybe I can help? What's on your mind?
@honestTangerine2432. Can we talk?
@honestTangerine2432 I'd like to talk as well, if you have time.
@honestTangerine2432
glad to see you helping out :)
@honestTangerine2432 pm me to. Need your input.
I can bring an educated ear to this table... Feel free to message me!
@Deadtired2 !!! Think about your self esteem please. You are wonderful and kind and deserve support. Any dom just wants to take advantage of you because they find violence arousing. violence is unhealthy!! you deserve better!!
@VegetarianBuddhist14 Please be more understanding. A Domme/Sub relationship is not about the Sub being taken advantage of. This kind of relationship is about playing out a fantasy in a safe consenting way, it takes a great deal of trust and mutual respect.
@Charlie33 No respect in violence. Why does someone deserve to be treated as less than to you?
@Charlie33 Why are you not worried about someone fantasying about being abused?
@VegetarianBuddhist14. No one is abused in a D/s relationship, when it's done right, and I fantasize about being "abused". This is the wonderful thing about BDSM, it allows people to act out their fantasies in a safe way. Both the Domme and the Sub are living out their fantasies, no one is being abused.
Im a sub so i might be able to help in some way.
@UnderstandingMoon Thank you for your reply. Do you have a Domme? If so, how did you find your Domme? What is your relationship with your Domme like?
@KittysPetJoey
Domme is a female dominant. I sub to males so i have a Dom.
@UnderstandingMoon I see, thanks for clearing that up for me.
Not sure if you got the help you were looking for DeadTired,2, but I am versed in BDSM and I would be willing to help you if I can.
I can listen to those wanting to talk about bdsm
I keep wondering if BDSM Sexual Health & Wellbeing couldn't be its own sub community.
@RaynebowUnicorn it probably could be, though I'm surprised there is so little traffic here. Maybe people go to specific forums more. 7 cups is well set up to cater for people struggling but a lot of people who get into this stuff don't tend understand how difficult it is or the impact it has.
I want to be a Dom on a reg occasion. I am afraid of getting new clients and juggling everything.
@affectionatePenny4826 Domme