CoffeeDrinker247
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Rating
Number of ratings235
Number of reviews84
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish
Listener sinceMay 7, 2015
Last activeover 6 months ago
GenderMale
PathStep 442
People helped376
Chats1,217
Group support chats129
Listener group chats501
Forum posts106
Forum upvotes190
Bio
Hello! I'm glad you've found 7 Cups of Tea! I am a 54-year-old male who is available for chat anytime about anything that is troubling you: addiction, anxiety, breakups, bullying, depression, grief, stress, or trauma. I have over 20 years experience in the mental health field and I am willing to listen and help you formulate a plan of action to help you through your current situation. I enjoy baseball, football, reading, crossword puzzles....and coffee :) If you don't choose me...please...choose someone.
DUE TO RECENT WORLD EVENTS, I SUDDENLY HAVE A LOT OF FREE TIME. IF I AM NOT ONLINE AND YOU WOULD LIKE TO ARRANGE A TIME FOR A LIVE CHAT, PLEASE LEAVE A MESSAGE AND I WILL GET BACK TO YOU AS QUICKLY AS I CAN.
Feedback & Reviews
respect! appreciated it!
They were incredibly kind and understanding. I was struggling with so many thoughts but I felt calmer after talking to them. They didn't judge me at all and it made me feel safer
He/she is so nice.
asked honest questions
A really genuine person. Kind, caring, makes the conversation about you. A pleasure to have met.
They are great. So patient and made me look at things in a whole new light.
Good understanding and helping!
Incredibly grateful for all his help. Very wise and kind person.
Such an amazing listener! Really takes on board what you have to say and gives useful feedback
I need the coffee you're drinking :)
Very good listener and very good advice
Informative. Kind. Invested in the conversation. Genuinely tries to understand and support. Thank you very much.
coffeedrinker247 was very attentive to my situation. I will definitely ask advice from this listener again. I also receive feedback on things to think about and reflect on. Awesome listener!
Thank you so much for reaching out to me!
Patience listener who provides helpful and insightful advices. He spreads loves.
Literally the most amazing listener I've ever had on 7cups. They understood what i was going through and helped me get back on my feet! Cant even describe how amazing they are
Coffee was simply brilliant. So kind and helpful without being overbearing. He gave just the right amount of encouragement and provided me with the time and space to vent without feeling judged or silly. I would connect with Coffee again, without hesitation. One of the best listeners that exists on the site, hands down.
Quick answers, great listener, really helpful! Thank you :)
thanks........................
Awesome chat.. really loved it
Thank you for your kindness, patience and compassion
thank you!!!!!!!!!! :)
Thanks again :)
Thank you much. you probably saved my day
figured out everything and was professional
I'm excited to have CoffeeDrinker247 as part of my support team! He's direct. Let's you know what is possible and what may be possible.
Polite, understanding, supportive and realistic listener.
Great conversation! Thank you!
Very dedicated to helping the speaker, and he gives great advice. I can feel the sincerity in his words and he makes me feel at ease when sharing.
That was the most helpful chat I've ever had. Breaking down and deconstructing my sadness, really helped. Thank you
Mr. CoffeeDrinker247 knew how to absorb and empathize with my issues and helped illuminate the core problems I was facing. He challenged my perspective and figuratively took my hand and walked me back to a distance where I could see all that I was doing, why I was doing it, and I was able to take this third-person self-perspective to rationally come to conclusions about the healthiest actions I should take from that point on. I have since confronted my issues, let go of my pain, and am now truly starting to heal myself. This was one of the most enlightening experiences I've ever had. I am now taking lessons from this conversation with me as standard for self respect and respect for others. Thank you 7 Cups family for having this platform for me and thank you Mr. CoffeeDrinker247 for helping me find the way to drop the weight I was carrying, there actually isn't enough thanks in the world.
good chat, and offered help for the future too!
It is pretty nice to talk to Coffee ^^.
Incredible experience! This person is one of the best listeners I have ever talked to. It was a real pleasure talking to him and it was really helpful. Also, you definitely have to check his posts if you find some time. You won't be disappointed!
Thank you very much for the help! :)
Thank you very much for the help! :)
I got teary because I felt like the Listener genuinely cared and that I could be honest. Feels like a rare combination in my life.
He is such an awesome listener!
Thank you. Great listener.
Great advice
Good!
This person is great
Very patient and understanding.
This person is great at counseling
thanks for the help. actually feels nice when someone listens and gives advice:)
Amazing.
This was the most elucidating, helpful and calm therapy I've received. I'm immensely grateful.
Great listener
So kind and understanding. Thankyou for Listhening to me. I would recommend!
Very comforting :)
supportive, kind
thanks so much
Just what I needed
great
Great help!
Very understanding and insightful! I really enjoyed talking to CoffeeDrinker247. Instead of just giving advice, with CoffeeDrinker247's help we came up with an actual plan to help me overcome my problem :) . Will continue to keep up with this Listener ^^ Thanks
really helpful, encouraging and great at helping me sort out my thoughts
Understanding and smart. Really knows how to get to the heart of what's bugging you to help you out.
Thank you sir
he was great ;D
Genuinely raised my spirits, absolutely would recommend.
Great help. empathetic. couldn't have asked for more
great listener talking to him was a relief he is really good at it
Extremely helpful. Calm, nonjudgmental, and informative when it comes to resources. Perfect example of the kind of person I come here seeking to talk to. I definitely suggest reaching out.
I never thought that I'd find myself in the situation that I am currently in. I began searching for advice columns but they were broadly speaking about the matter; not understanding the personal details about my situation. I was so skeptical of using this site and yet so grateful that I was able to speak with someone who listened to me and gave wonderful, wise, unbiased advice. Thank you so much.
Was the safe space I needed to express my feelings 'out loud'. Super knowledgeable, understanding and supportive thank you
Just amazing ☺ 🐝
Great listener
Had a great chat with the listener - 7 cups keep this guy on you're team
A very very very helpful and soothing person to talk too. really helped me clear my mind and understand. he made the situation i was in a real lesson and kinda blessing that it went the way it did rather than any other way. i was given great wisdom and strength to try move on and to just work on the most important thing, i cannot thank them enough. I dont know how i would have dealt with myself otherwise. Thank you again to the person who spoke me through this time. i give you all the blessings. i really cannot thank you enough :3
He is really nice, and he cleared my situation.
Great even though I talked to him sparsely.
good
Amazing listener. Very willing to help.
a good, helpful listener
caring
really good listener
I don't know what I would have done without CoffeeDrinker247's help. I'm glad I found this site and had their help.
What an awesome listener! Insightful, humane, non-judgmental, and very attuned to what I discussed with him. I left the chat feeling helped -- and much better
Thank You so much...:)
Very supportive - I would speak to this listener again
Such a comforting online voice, and really helped me in my time of need by providing a listening ear and empathetic responses.
Wonderful, engaged, empathic listener.
Really empathetic, and so helpful. He really listened and showed me some resources that might be of use. Thanks again x
It was great to talk with you it really helped me to calm down and remember what is truly important. You're polite and interested in what the other one says.
I sought help and council, and CoffeeDrinker was not only supportive, but honest and empathetic. Great listener.
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