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What are things that�s guys wish girls understood, and vice versa?

User Profile: ChillSy
ChillSy July 9th, 2019

If youre here, you probably read the title and get the idea.

Guys: what is something you wish all girls could understand?

Girls: what is something you wish all guys could understand?

Because some of us have usernames that are not specifically male or female, please put something along the lines of, I wish that guys/girls understood _____

Please be polite, understanding and courteous, these are not meant to call anyone specifically out, but are opinions that should be respected just as you would want yours to be.

Thanks!

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User Profile: kindFish9215
kindFish9215 October 13th, 2021

@ChillSy

Don't mean to talk about ALL guys, but in my experience I feel like almost every guy has this issue.

And to all the boys reading this, hear me out!

When a girl is being nice to you, that DOES NOT MEAN she is flirting with you.

I find this happens to me and other girls I know. For instance, I would be at a social event (e.g. club, bar, etc.) and I would be talking to this guy because he seems friendly and all. And next thing, he comes very close to me and wraps his hand around my waist. Me being polite, I don't really say anything (even though I should), but it kind of makes me feel uncomfortable because I have no intentions of flirting. I am merely just being nice because I enjoy meeting new people.

User Profile: Daydreamer47
Daydreamer47 November 6th, 2021

Be upfront at the beginning about whether you are looking for something casual or more serious.

Women don't owe you anything. If she says she is not interested, leave her alone and talk to someone else.