Backup Plan-Yes or No ?
Overwhealmed with negitave emotions today im in a relationship with some one who is going through a break up .they are also dealing with alot of issues.I want to help and be there to support him through it but it is hard.Lately Im feeling as if hed rather be else where than with me.we tried to talk about things yesterday but I just couldnt find the words.i do alot to help this guy with daily living and I know he appreciates its .But I cant help thinking that thats the only reason hes with me.That and the fact that the sex is amazing.
Am I being stupid ?
to hang around waiting for this guy to get over his ex and make up his mind if he wants me or not. He says he feels rejected and un wanted but thats exactly how he makes me feel but he cant see that
Am I just his backup plan.?
Am I being used ?
Is it possible to have an intimate relationship with someone when your still in love with Ex or is it just wrong and selfish of him?
Any advise would be greatly appreciated