psychologically based ED
Yes really hard to talk about this glad I don't have to look anybody in the faces I do it lol I have mild ED I've tried medical treatments my last doctor told me and all likelihood based on my symptoms it's psychologically based I don't know if I can get any help with that here.
@selfdisciplinedPenny4408
Did doctor give you a few things to think about on this? for example if you are not really into your current sex life. perhaps performance anxiety or being bored .. with things? .... partner issues ?
Do you have maybe unrelated issues that interfere with certain times... i know when i was upset with partner about other items i had a difficult time during intimacy ... even small pet peeves add up and can be a damper on things. ( for either partner)
Yes I did actually even tell my girlfriend it was most likely psychologically based of course it makes her feel like I'm saying something bad about her she wasn't mad at me but it's very difficult to bring any problems up to her without her getting extremely defensive and of course I think that is and all likelihood most certainly part of the problem lol and she's actually not very giving in bed either can't tell her that but it is what it is certainly am playing a part in it
@selfdisciplinedPenny4408
Well in this case you will need to find a way to communicate... or it may get worse... I can understand some take things personally but honesty and telling each other about what you need should be something people in a relationship should be able to discuss...
Does she understand how YOU most likely feel when this happens.... does she care about your feelings on matter.
