if anyone can help please do

so I like three people one's gay and has a boyfriend, the other guy I confessed to once he said he was gay and then now he's Omni and theirs a girl who I really like and want to ask out she lives 4,919 miles away and an 8 hour time difference I really like her and want to ask her out but don't know also need to fix the friendship with the gay guy with the boyfriend he knows I like him but I need some way to say I'm not the one who likes him