@Tommy1971
NO you are not a jerk....it is difficult to listen to constant complaints and see no improvement or action.
some people want an answer and sadly there is a great deal of doctors who just barely listen to patient and diagnosis on the simplest answer and are NOT correct.
Instead of constant complaints what is she doing about it ? ... second opinions ?
If using some medical sites it is common for people to assume they have the most rare thing and their DR just missed it ... this can cause disconnect with provider as they know some patients have decided they have a diagnosis they do NOT have.
making a log of what is happening and what brings on symptoms some DR you need to do the leg work for.... does she speak up to doctors? ask real questions or just storm out and think they are all stupid....... some disagree with providers but do not speak up to THEM even though they are the customer and should speak up if not getting the service they ( insurance ) is paying for.