My mom
I’m not sure if this is the right subhead to post this on, but my relationship with my mom is under stress so I figured this was close enough. The last couple days, my mom’s been saying she’ll do things with me or telling me she’ll help me find something I’ve been trying to find, but she just doesn’t. Instead, she’s been playing video games with my sister. Driving practice, shopping for things I needed, helping me find something she said I could have. All these things are things she neglected to play video games with my sister. I love that game too, but she only plays with my sister since “she’s more fun to play against.” Once she decides to play with me, she’s too tired and will fall asleep midway through our game. I asked her today why she only plays with my sister and only asks my sister to play and she immediately got defensive, saying she hadn’t played with my sister in the last hour, but she had asked my sister to play and played multiple rounds with her before sending us away so she could play by herself. I brought up the last couple days where she’s only asked my sister, and she told me not to be jealous of her and that she knows my sister will always play with her, but I’m too grumpy to play. I feel as though this isn’t true and just her trying to defend herself. Am I looking too deep into it?
@littleStrawberries1840
I'm really sorry to hear about the struggles you're having with your mom. It sounds like you're feeling left out and hurt, which is completely understandable given the situation. It's tough when it feels like your efforts to spend time with someone are being overlooked.
Your feelings are valid, and it's important to acknowledge them. It might help to have an open and honest conversation with your mom about how you're feeling. Try to approach it calmly and let her know that you miss spending time with her and that it's not about being jealous of your sister, but about wanting to feel included and valued.
You could also suggest specific activities you both enjoy and plan a time to do them together. Sometimes, showing that you’re willing to compromise and make an effort can help bridge the gap.
Remember, it’s okay to express your feelings and seek the attention and support you need. I hope things get better for you and your relationship with your mom improves. Stay strong and take care!🤗