I posted something

@Priscella

You can see it .......but like so many perhaps you gloss over what they are really like.......  because you saw maybe you still see that they could be something better....  

I find the hardest things to let go are not things you can touch but a vision of what we see in our heads... when things end for whatever reason we miss the plan/ or idea  hold in our heads.... because often the real life version does not match.  

Only when we have a new vision of what we want or can see a way out do we acknowledge what we do see.