I hate waking up and realizing that I am single
I hate waking up realizing that 27 years old im still single and I have never dated. I feel like such a failure for never ever dating and i have messed up badly in my life. All I did was study and got my bachelors and masters however where I live education is useless so I failed at it.
I hate this feeling so much, Ive tried everything to be good enough for a relationship but its never enough and I hate myself for it.
@diplomaticBirch7532
It takes dedication to go through a lot of higher education what was your plan ?
what career or place did you plan on living? one of the worst things we can do is second guess why we did something in the past... finding a partner / relationship can be nerve wracking but there are many ways to meet people much like finding a job/ career ... networking ....many people meet others through work- hobbies= and often friends of friends... you might be shy as you have not dated much but that could be a plus in some situations as many relationship troubles is about insecurities about ex partners....
I studied computer science and have a bachelors and masters in computer science. I work full time as a software engineer.
my goal was to first focus on school and my job before getting into a relationship. However where I live education is not valuable here therefore I can't find a relationship and its a red flag that im still a virgin so I don't know what to do now.