I cut ties with a toxic ex today
After 2 years of fighting, countless arguments, a borderline abusive relationship where i was constantly guilt tripped into *** and putting his needs above mine, he "left" me today
He was supposed to be my boyfriend, my caregiver (im an age regressor), my best friend
He got comfortable, and he soon became someone completely different
He left me today
And I did not fight it
I did not cry, or beg, or plead
I did not swear to be better
Because I am enough, I am not enough for him, but I am for someone else
This is something small, but for me it is huge
@Sweetgirl07
im actually proud of you for standing up for yourself and letting the toxicity remove itself from your life ... it is so difficult to do that despite the abuse but your so strong for trying and i hope they don't trouble you again ... offering hugs 💕💕
@Sweetgirl07
this is one of the absolute toughest things to do. i am so happy for you!
Stay strong!
You are doing great.
You will always be someone precious to the person who appreciates you.
You don't have to beg or plead. You are doing great.
I can relate and I empathize with you.
Thank you all for your love and support
We have not been together in a long time, and i am seeing someone new for 2 months now, this may make me sound like a bad person, but he constantly belittled my mental health struggles, saying his was worse and constantly brought up how su!c!dal he was and how much he drank and smoke "because you dont care" etc, and after him constantly trying to s#xt me because he was stressed and needed to unwind and me saying no, not only because im taken (which he doesnt know) but because i just didnt want it, he finally yelled some more at me and tried to guilt trip me into thinking him leaving was my fault
I hope he heals one day, and as of now, I am healing myself, slowly, but surely, with someone who truly values and loves me
@Sweetgirl07 proud of you that you have taken this decision. It was long due. Sending you lots of love. May you get the strength to heal from this.
