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Ex cheated and has happily moved on

selfdisciplinedApple6511 September 17th, 2023

I feel very stuck and alone. I was in a relationship with this guy (m31) me f(28) for about a year. 6 months into the relationship we went on a trip together and I found out he had been cheating on me but I decided to give it another chance and continue the relationship. We ended up breaking up in Feb and then reconnected 2 weeks later and he ended up cheating on me with another person and completely ghosted me. He even reported me for harassment when I texted him and asked him to talk. There’s many other things that happened but I just feel so upset. I don’t understand why I’m still hung up on someone who obviously did not love me. I feel very stuck, alone and upset.

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spicyavocado3788 September 18th, 2023

You have a big heart. I hope it heals. ❤️ remember, people that hurt us without remorse continue to suck even after they leave our lives. Even though we saw the best in them..hoped for the best..forgave. He’ll continually be an unworthy human and repeat his miserable cycles because he’s the one with the problem. You deserve so much better! If anything, you should feel sorry for him because he self sabotaged himself and ruined a relationship with someone who was clearly too good for him. It’s okay to be upset but remember that he lost YOU, not the other way around. You only saw his true toxic nature.


Sending love xxx you’re not alone for sure 💖