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selfdisciplinedApple6511
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Dating someone who is going through divorce
Relationship Stress / by selfdisciplinedApple6511
Last post
 4 hours ago
...See more hey guys, I’m reaching out here because I don’t really know what to do. I have been seeing this person recently, we went out on 3 dates. For a bit of context, I made it very clear that I’m dating to marry and he was honest and told me that his divorce is almost finalised and that’s why he is open to dating. He is still living with his ex, until she gets her own house and him his own place. I really like this person but I don’t know if we are on the same page about things.
No friends
Relationship Stress / by selfdisciplinedApple6511
Last post
 April 21st
...See more I realised that I have no friends, nobody texts me other than my colleagues. All the people who used to be close to me are no longer close to me, they seem to have better friends. I thought I had a childhood friend but instead he was just trying to take advantage of me and never treated me like a friend. I feel extremely sad and lonely.
Ex sent me explicit pics whilst dating someone
Relationship Stress / by selfdisciplinedApple6511
Last post
 March 21st
...See more My ex and I broke up over a year ago. He’s been together with the girl he cheated on me with. I pretty much got over it as I started healing after a long break I too have been seeing people and attending therapy. My ex was not blocked in my contacts as I still have financial matters to settle with him, other than that, I have no ties to him. When I was updating about the said matters to him he started to suddenly send in explicit pics of him through disappearing messages. I screenshotted them and sent it to his gf. His gf though instead did not believe me and is still choosing to take his side. I have nothing against that. It just baffles me at how you know someone is openly cheating and still choose to trust them. I just wanted to vent it out here. Thank you for reading.
My ex came back
Relationship Stress / by selfdisciplinedApple6511
Last post
 January 18th
...See more Recently, my ex and I got in contact and the conversation was quite flirty and then my ex said that he wants to move the conversation to *** so that his gf won’t see. A little bit of context, my ex actually cheated on me and got into a relationship within a few weeks after we broke up. His new gf is very aware of me and knows what he did. I for sure do not know what he has told her about me but probably nothing good. Going back to the recent events, a few days after my ex and I got in contact, she suddenly blocked me on her social media. I’m confused because her account is private and she didn’t block me until now.
Ex cheated and has happily moved on
Relationship Stress / by selfdisciplinedApple6511
Last post
 September 18th, 2023
...See more I feel very stuck and alone. I was in a relationship with this guy (m31) me f(28) for about a year. 6 months into the relationship we went on a trip together and I found out he had been cheating on me but I decided to give it another chance and continue the relationship. We ended up breaking up in Feb and then reconnected 2 weeks later and he ended up cheating on me with another person and completely ghosted me. He even reported me for harassment when I texted him and asked him to talk. There’s many other things that happened but I just feel so upset. I don’t understand why I’m still hung up on someone who obviously did not love me. I feel very stuck, alone and upset.
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