Birthday

My boyfriend and I decided to go out for my bday dinner and he told me to pick wherever I wanted to go. Everything was going well until we got our dinner, it was not what we expected and not very good. We are both the same that we do not like to complain or send something back unless necessary so we agreed we were not going to do that. Where we differ is that I let things go, I can’t control how the meal was going to taste so it just is what it is. My boyfriend on the other end continued to go on and on about how bad it was and how disappointed he was and how it wasn’t worth the money (he still had no interest to complain about it) the longer he went on the more I felt bad and got upset because I had picked it. 30 minutes later he was still going on about it and I am in near tears because I feel like it is my fault.

He turns it around on me saying that if I had gone on with him about how bad it was then he would have been less mad but because I was letting it go I wasn’t on his side so now his anger is turned onto me. And now it’s all my fault, he said he should have never let me talk him into going out for dinner we should have just stayed home. But if we had a good meal none of this would have happened

I am so upset, it’s my birthday and now we aren’t even speaking because according to him it is all my fault