help me, god
As you grow up, you change. There are some friendships you don't like to maintain anymore. I have few high school friends who keep meeting every time everyone is in the town. We've met twice after highschool, but each time I visit them, I don't feel comfortable around them anymore. We've had some good memories, but now it's like I'm seating with them, and I feel lost or lonely. It bothers me that if they ask me to meet again, how will I say no to the plan? I don't even know how to say no. I don't want to hurt them, but I also realise that I have to do what makes me happy.
@passionateSea2002
I understand the feeling. I moved once, and when I visit my friends again I did feel lost too. I don’t know your situation, like if you still live by or not, but you should definitely keep your feelings in mind. If you feel like it’s best to move on then that might be what you need to do, but if you really feel like you want to be friends again then I would just say give it a shot. Either way the decision should be up to you. I hope this helps, but what ever happens, I hope you know that your feelings matter.