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Question - what do you call 2 people who are more then Best Friends but are not dating?

Dragon2 February 4th, 2015

I am in this situaiton now and am curious to know what to call it...

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bestApple51 February 4th, 2015

Emotionally intimate friends?

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Dragon2 OP February 4th, 2015

thanks for the reply - sounds good

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nina50 February 4th, 2015

A Blessing because it takes a lifetime to make a friend and friends come far and few in between as it has been said!

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Dragon2 OP February 4th, 2015

totally agree - I am blessed as it took most of my life to find a special girl like her heart

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nina50 February 5th, 2015

So hold on to her with all you have in you and you will not go wrong.If she is special then you are special as well. I wish you both the best as you continue embarking on life's journey together

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Dragon2 OP February 5th, 2015

I promise I will..

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Dragon2 OP February 5th, 2015

someone said to me "boo thang"

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bestApple51 February 5th, 2015

I get "baby girl." Please, avoiding labels much? He loves me and there is no doubt in my mind about that.

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Dragon2 OP February 5th, 2015

indeed

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CompassionateHeart2 February 6th, 2015

Soon to be a couple. :)

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Dragon2 OP February 6th, 2015

smiley

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Aerii February 7th, 2015

best friends forever or going to be couple one daysmiley

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Dragon2 OP February 7th, 2015

Thank you for your reply

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KindleKitten February 7th, 2015

If you are more than friends but not friends with benefits he is your chosen family. :) The only thing stronger than a friend short of a significant other is someone you allow close enough to be like family. It is wonderful that you have a person like this in your life!

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Dragon2 OP February 8th, 2015

thank you for your reply - she not her btw

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Dragon2 OP February 8th, 2015

*she not he

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elthz11 March 7th, 2015

I'm currently in this situation! We are very close, my friends told me that we're just like a couple. I was there when he's at the lowest, and he was there when i'm at my lowest. We knew what the other thinking just by looking. And we are not even dating. I myself were not even sure, whether it's love, or just being a VERY CLOSE FRIEND.

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ImTheHighwayMan May 13th, 2015

Queerplatonic relationship (QPR): an emotionally platonic relationship that has characteristics of a romantic/sexual relationship. It can be an importance/closeness stronger than the best friend norm, displaying non-sexual platonic sensual attraction (only differing from romantic sensual attraction with chaste kissing, althoughpreferringchaste kissing or no kissing does not make one?sfeelings unromantic), friends with sexual benefits, romantically pleasing someone you platonically love (QP to one and romantic to the other), or any combination of those. They may or may not have monogamy, live together, or look like a couple to the public. Romantics and Aromantics can have QPRs. The word queer originally means odd. It was later used as a slur toward gay people. Some people want to reclaim its past positive meaning. Some people may know aQPR by the term Romantic Friendship. And someuse Platonic Life Partner to mean the same thing as QPR, but i disagree. From the examples given on its wiki it's just a devoted best friend (like House and his bff James Wilson), where as a QPR has a fixation and is misinterpretable (like the first episode of the BBC series Sherlock; after that it's more so Life Partners, or JD and Terkfrom Scrubs). QPRsdidn't have a substitute name for gf/bf so someone jokingly said zucchiniand it stuck. I hate it, it's too long/needs to be too syllableslike the words its trying to replace. I like just saying QP.

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Dragon2 OP June 1st, 2015

I appreciate the detailed reply - thank you

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Dragon2 OP June 1st, 2015

thank you for your reply - best wishes to both of you

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caringLight March 31st, 2017

Best friends working towards a relationship

independentTalker7731 March 31st, 2017

@Dragon2

a recipe for disaster

someone always gets hurt