I've lost my bestfriend in a silly way...
Hi all! 
I wanted to share with you what happened to me just a couple of days ago... It's so surreal and weird, I promise.
I had a terrible argue with my mum and she kicked me out her home. I told this to my best friend and she tried to help me a lot, as always. I told her that I was going out without my mobile phone to disconnectabout everything. The problem begun when I returned and I checked out my mobile phone. She started to tell me that she was helping me with everything however she could and I didn't pay attention to her (all this just because she had a simple stomach ache) And only because of that, she told me that we will be never best friends and that she doesn't want to help me with myproblems anymore.
She often acts like that and I don't like it at all, she thinks that her little ''problems'' are more important than the rest and also that she's the center of the universe. I can't understand anything and I don't know what to do. I feel bad and lonely because we were friends since 8... I don't know what to do, she doesn't speaks to me and she ignores me...
@Amy130, I am extremely sad to hear this. I hope you do have a place to stay and you are safe and sound when you read this. It appears that your best friend was trying to help you out but at that time you were angry due to another issue. May be due to this you were not able to respond to her in a better way and this might have hurt her.
Your problem is definitely huge because now you have to look for a place to stay and also look after yourself. However at the same time you feel sad about hurting your friend. You can perhaps apologize to her in a sincere way and talk to her about the situation you are in. Your friend, too, was going through a physical ailment and yet she tried to comfort you. I feel you may try being empathetic towards her and be a little patient. It seems she s a very good friend of yours Hopefully when she will calm down you both can be good friends again
Thank you for all love I'm in my boyfriend's home, so I'm fine^^ I've apologized hera million of times and she doesn't tell me nothing... I think she doesn't care for me anymore and she only cares about herself... I'm just tired of this situation and I guess I deserve some more. I'll stop talking to her, I'll take care of myself and I'll look for a really good friend.
Whenever I have a friend, another one comes by and takes them and they both leave me-it's happend more than 7 times-. I'm convinced I was meant to be a loner. And you know what, I'm okay with that.=)
You'll never be alone! You've got people here to talk to, I'm here with you. I love this webpage because we can help each other and we care about each other! So, just because this people you call ''friends'' are just fake, it doesn't mean the fault is yours and you have to be a loner.
You are a big person and you don't deserve them. kisses
THXS!😊
I'm gonna be honest with you. If she's always acting like this, and making you question your relationship constantly, maybe it wasn't meant to be. =/ "We met for a reason. Either you're a BLESSING or a LESSON" ~unknown
Thank you a lost for your words ;-; *big hug*
Np :*
i lost my best friend by telling him i loved him. 😪💔
I am so sorry. That is horrible. Just stay strong, maybe your love was too good for him =) and if you are TRULY BFFs, u have nothing to worry about, they'll come back around
@Dreamer02 thanks but its hard when i have to see him everyday, to see and know that i lost someone that use to mean the world to me :( to be have someone who was always there for me, and now is just a distant memory
Time heals all wounds :) just think 5 years from now. Right now will be a funny story to tell :P
I had the same situation with my ex "best friend"... She kept telling me, that I don't listen to her and don't care about her feeling and she wanted me to feel guilty, while she never cared about me and my problems... For example her "big problem" was that a guy with whom she had a one-night stand, didn't reply to her text message... While I wanted to tell her about my self-harm problem, symptoms of depression, tough situation in my family etc.
The best thing you can do is to leave that friend and never contact her again. I know how hard it is... It took me 5 years to understand that my ex-friend is toxic. Believe me, there are better people in this world and you deserve a better friend.
I'm glad that you are safe right now and the fact that you can stay at your partners is even better. Your partner seems to be very supportive witb your problems so it just goes to show how much he really cares about you. Do you have any other friends who you can turn to as well as your partner? I don't know if you do or not but just remember that there's always someone who you can talk to. You might find later in life that you will make new friends just by going out and socialising. It's important that you feel ok in yourself first of all. Please remember that you have us x