I can't talk to my friend
I made a truly amazing friend here but with the recent site changes I've completely lost all ability to contact them. This person was all I had, the only reason I even have to live, and now with them gone I have nobody and I'm losing my mind. I made a thread to contact her and it was deleted. I need my friend. I have no other reason to keep fighting. I don't even know what the point of this thread is except I'm lonely and miserable and going insane.
@tluper6491 im sorry to hear that, do you maybe have the name of your friend? if you do you can tag them and maybe they'll respond or sonething? not too sure. i wish you the best of luck.
@HappyLily291125
I did that, it got deleted.
@tluper6491 im sorry to hear that. hmm naybe if they are a listener you can search them up?
@HappyLily291125
That's the thing, they WERE a listener and then their listener account got deleted and the feed was the only way I had to contact them. Now with that gone I have no way to contact them. I need this friend. I have nothing else to live for.
@tluper6491 i understand tluper. i really do. hmm maybe you can try again? try to tag them again? on this feed maybe?
@HappyLily291125
It'll probably just get deleted again since I really don't know what I did wrong, besides that I really hate that our conversations would have to be public like this. We're extremely close, we talk about very personal and private things. I have considered making a listener account myself just to talk to her but I can't then just ignore other chat requests and I'm too stupid and messed up to actually help people. I have no idea what to do. I know I'll never make another friend I can relate to on even half as many levels as this person, and to be honest I don't think I ever want to make another friend again. It always ends in heartbreak one way or another. At least this time it wasn't my fault.
@tluper6491
I feel so stupid for actually making a friend. I should have known it was too good to be true. Something was bound to happen that would ruin it.
@tluper6491 I'm really sorry to hear that. I can understand how you feel, but not all friendships end with heart break. sometimes they can last very long. I understand not wanting to make a listener account, but i believe anyone can help anyone, if they try their best. Maybe give it a go? To keep in contact with your friend, you can also get to know others i think. You can make some friends through other group chats as well. I hope you feel better sooner than later. I wish you the best of luck.
@tluper6491 I know how you feel as I lost a friend as well. You know what I learned. Do not get attached to people you don't know enough about. Like I only had an email address for this person. They had no social media accounts. When I lost contact through email, I also went crazy. Like I thought something happened to this person. I didn't know anyone who knew this person. What can you do? Learn from it. Do not dependent on people who may disappear. You at least need a phone number or an address. juIn itmy case it just happened that they went on a long vacation; totally rude not to let me know about it but then again I shouldn't have cared.
