Girls are competitive
I dont know what to do anymore. I have serious problems in relating with girls. They are crazy competitive and mean, and they are so fucking jelous and evil. I don't understand why. Im not a person who competes, and im really normal i think. As a person. But i am really finding it difficult to even talk with them. I'm seriously concerned about the way other girls can't communicate with me without trying to use me or bring me down. Im not talking about teen drama or things like that, im 21, and everytime they become jelous, and competitive and so toxic. I never tought it would be this difficult. Like women are still at that level? I tought we would be better, smarter, as a generation ...i really feel bad. It makes me so sad that its like that ... its orrenous as a woman to see other women treat each other as an enemy ... i dont undersand it ... and i dont know what to do anymore ...
Hey, I'm sorry about how you're feeling because of other people. First of all, there's no need to change yourself for someone else.
We can't change everyone but we can surely change the way people treat us.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
You're strong. If you're kind then you don't have to be like them. You don't have to bring yourself down even if they try to. We can't change what other people think or do but we can be kind to ourselves. We can tell ourselves that we don't deserve how they treat. You don't have to deal with toxic people everyday. Even if it's essential for you to deal with them, you can maintain your dignity and pride. You can also limit your conversations to professional ones if that works for you.
I can't tell you what to do but I just want you to know that you're above it all and you don't deserve that kind of treatment. 🤍
Secondly, as you said you find it hard to talk to them because of that. I want to tell you that sometimes we have to bring acceptance for only few things. You don't have to tolerate toxic behaviour but you can maintain general conversations that are essential. Choose your people wisely & don't let people make you feel inferior. 🌻
Hope it helps. :)
Love.
