She used to be great

@desperatelyseekinghelp37 i would break up with her if she doesn't change like give her an ultimatum if she doesn't want that then it is a sign to move on for the better.

I sat with her this morning and had a heart to heart with her and asked her to make an effort

omg! how did it go? i dont think u should give her an ultimatum becuase that comes off as a threat ans can lead to more toxic behaviour ecpeically if u dont actually plan on breaking up w her if she doesnt change bc then its an open threat and it means less to her so shell contiune doing it yk bc she knows u wont leave. i think u should talk to her and if it does change than yay thats good and if she doesnt talk to her again and THEN b like idk if i can jeep doing this if u dont at least try to change:)

hello, @desperatelyseekinghelp37, i read both your posts, thank you posting this <3

relationships in the beginning are heady love & joy. so much so that once a partner stops trying it feels like falling from cloud 9. i'm glad you sat down to communicate with her, that's the most important tool in a relationship. how did it go? did she listen to you openly and admit to her faults or was she defensive?