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Dating in your 20’s vs dating in your 30’s

KatLis123 April 1st, 2021

What do you think may be the difference between dating in your 20's vs dating in your 30's?

What was your personal experience of relationships in your 20's compared to when you were 30?

I changed a lot as a person through the last decade. When I was in my 20's I didn't know myself very well in terms of what I wanted in life and who I would want to be in the future. I lacked a lot of confidence and meeting new people was always difficult. Before I didn't have very stable relationships with my parents. I normally asked for everything to be my way and never listened to what they had to say. I cherish and respect my family now and have understood that they only wanted the best for me. I made a ton of mistakes as well but I had to learn those lessons a hard way. I look after myself more which I find very important.

Share your own experience with us!

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Optimisticempath April 16th, 2021

@KatLis123

Glad to hear about your experience, thanks for sharing . ❤

I think with time , people get mature and more in control of their feelings and start to really realise what's good or bad for them . 😊

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KatLis123 OP May 7th, 2021

@Optimisticempath

I couldnt agree more! :)

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GrayNightingale May 6th, 2021

20's - shallow, vapid, unenthralling

30's - dealing with broken people

SailorSeahorse May 7th, 2021

In your 20's you feel like everything is possible and you are full of hope. Now in my 30's I feel like I missed the boat. I'm definitely more stable and in tune with myself, but I feel like I'm less likely to compromise and that can be problematic when trying to build a life with someone. Is it even possible to find a spouse in your 30's? I'm truly not sure.

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GrayNightingale May 7th, 2021

@SailorSeahorse

Yes to finding spouse. Quite possible.

KatLis123 OP May 7th, 2021

@SailorSeahorse

Age itself shouldnt be a barrier to achieving your goals and dreams, i suppose its more of an attitude towards life. :) Not too late to find a partner after 30. maturity, life experience and confidence you get are appealing traits.

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