Boundaries and respect
I'm just sounding off here and wondering what others views are on this situation. Do you find it really annoying and disrespectful when your partner is always looking at their phone especially whilst in your company?
I have to accept that smartphones are here to stay and I even use one but I am mindful of when I use it. However my partner seems to be addicted to his. Its like his mistress, always holding his attention and getting in between us. As soon as he wakes up he checks Facebook and the news, and he will then grab any opportunity to flick through his phone during the day and even last thing at night in bed. He must open his phone at least 70 times in a day and will scroll for at least 20 minutes at a time. And what really gets me is that when I get in from work, we will get talking and exchanging stories of the day and then he will just stop talking and opens his phone and stares it and I'm left sitting like a lemon in silence. I do then say 'are we done with talking?' he'll look up and say 'yup, unless you want to say anything else?'. I give up and leave the room. He will also do it during our time watching a film together. All I can see from the corner of my eye is the flicker of his phone screen as he gets lost in scrolling, it's not nice when you feel your are not having quality time with your other half.
It is also embarrassing as he will do this when in company of family members, I know he probably uses it so he doesn't have to engage with them, well he might as well stay in the car!