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❤Who do you trust and why?❤

gentleDreamer76 March 21st, 2017

I know that trust takes a long time to fully develope within any type of relationship most of the time. Whether it be friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, teachers, sometimes even your sibilings XD.

So who in your life do you trust the most when it comes to relationship advice? :P

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professionalPerspective60 March 21st, 2017

@gentleDreamer76

Thats a good question, speaking for myself, I'd have to say me! I always trust my gut, my own intuition is much stronger than anyone could recommend, so I guess what I'm saying, is never underestimate yourself as a person, believe in yourself to make the right decision based on how you feel, of course input from others is sometimes necessary, but try not to be influenced by others, because ultimately, your the best judge for yourself. Take care.

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@professionalPerspective60 good for you

calidescopeheart March 27th, 2017

@professionalPerspective60 awesome answer

gentleDreamer76 OP April 2nd, 2017

@professionalPerspective60 I absolutely connect with what you said :) sometimes for me my own advice is the better option. Sometimes I like other perspectives, but i am so indecisive, I tend to stick with what I think is the better judgement ❤️

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Helping2findaway March 21st, 2017

@gentleDreamer76... that is a very good question.. In my case, As a female, who's been lied too and hurt, it is indeed challenging to trust others however, i trust myself and my gut. I have learn our inner voice knows alot more about us than we may. Also for relationship advice i trust very old friends, my cousin and my best friend... But im very selecctive of what i say to them.. There are moments i feel as those trusting myself in the best thing to do..

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@Helping2findAway well trust is a gift..and some people have it more than others. Even if we have been broken or lied to, I always maintain that people have potential.

calidescopeheart March 27th, 2017

@Helping2findAway awesome! I agree completely

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afriendindeed8 March 21st, 2017

@gentleDreamer76

I think my best friend, she's always been there for me. Though its not necessary I always follow what she says. It just feels good to know another side to the story. But yes she definitely supports me in whatever my decision is. So lucky to have her <3 :)

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@afriendindeed8 love this

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JustLolli March 21st, 2017

Only my mum. Often times we don't get along since I'm very stubborn and think I know better because it's my life and all. But recently I realized that she has some points and every advices she tells me even though I despise some, is still for me own good and for my own growing.. She's the best person in my life ❤❤

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@JustLolli thats nice. I think I feel the same way about my mum too.

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FriendlyListener84 March 22nd, 2017

The only person i trust is a friend ive met over facebook a few years ago, shes the only one i can tell anything and everything to and shes always been there for me

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@FriendlyListener84 thats interesting, have you met her?

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Keola March 23rd, 2017

@GentleDreamer76 ... Because of my past, I have major trust issues. I do have to trust my gut and follow my instincts. One has to "prove" to be that they are trustworthy. Once that trust is built, I hold on to it tight.
So, to answer your question, I trust my sister from another mother, she have proven herself trustworthy and everyday she is by me supporting me and loving me and guiding me to the right direction. I trust her with my heart and my life. No matter what is happening in my life, she is always there, holding onto me, keeping me strong. No matter the distance, she is there for me, and I in return.

XxlostkittenXx March 23rd, 2017

I trust my boyfriend kolton because he is the best thing that has ever happened to me, my bestfriend killied herself tonight march 23. at 1:15 am and he has been here for me non stop. he never tells my secrets to anyone,

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@XxlostkittenXx oh my Im so sorry to hear that. Its great you have someone to pour your heart into.

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Mellietronx March 23rd, 2017

@gentleDreamer76 Probably one of my friends that lives far away. She visits a least once a year, but I chat with her almost everyday.

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@Mellietronx nice

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FluffyTed March 23rd, 2017

I trust my friends ...sometimes but I completely trust no one. I just realise I don't trust my guts either.

Hmm... That's a tough question.

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FluffyTed March 23rd, 2017

I have a cousin that I trust maybe because he's smart and I look up to him.

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BenjiArcher March 24th, 2017

I had to actually think, I have had almost everyone important in my life betray my trust and being gay I have no one in my family that has had a similar situation to me.

I would say my friend Christine in a general sense, she is super protective of me and distrusts a lot of people in addition she being asexual it's similar with family.

I wanna say my own gut but it has backfired and made me miss a window to be with someone truly special romantically and while I do love the platonic relationship we have, that air lingers a lot.

I guess I trust the moment more than opinions or myself... I don't have people that have even a footing in my situations and I'm taking every day as they come... so I focus on that moment to see if it is right, not ideal but I don't have better options.

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Fantacy May 11th, 2017

@BenjiArcher

i can't trust anyone still to be honest

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