Life is great … should I divorce?
Hi community,
Help needed! My life is great right now from a professional point of view. I have a rather good job but not much development opportunity in the day job. I have worked in building a startup and we just got proper funding based on a x mill. company valuation! However, my wife is not supportive at all in anything I do. We are living abroad and for me to go full time with my startup, I need to quit my job and say goodbye to my health insurance for the family. I have asked my wife to contemplate getting a corporate job (She got masters degree but hasn’t worked since the birth of our first kid almost a decade ago!!).
I wake up every morning at 6am to cook lunch, make breakfast and sometimes prep ingredients for dinner. Then drive kids to school. My wife will pick them up at school and drive them to activities. I’m home 7pm, eat dinner together and putting kids to bed by 9:30pm. Wife will keep to herself and possibly sit on the sofa at 11pm until we go to bed.
I feel like a ghost in my own life. My dreams have materialized but my wife generally ignores me, gaslight me or doesn’t acknowledge me.
Should I divorce?