I still like her
I like my ex still. I know everyone is going to tell me to move on and forget about her but I can't. I've tried to so many times yet there's always this feeling in me that keeps her on my mind. I guess I depended on her more than I thought. She meant everything to me. There wasn't a thing I wouldn't do for her. She made me feel special and whole. No one has ever done that for me before. I relied on her so much that when she left it destroyed me. Ever since January 5th I've been miserable. My mood went from happy to depressed so quickly. It got so bad that I can hardly look myself in the mirror anymore. I just want to scream all the time. I decided I wanted to start talking to her again sometime around last month but before I even had a chance she puts the date 4/27/17 with hearts by them in her bio on Instagram with someone initials next to them. She had replaced me. If the break up didn't devestate me finding out she had a new boyfriend did. I was upset I could barley stand. I couldn't think just stare at the wall in sheer terror. Two of my worst nightmares just became realities and there isn't a thing I could do to stop it. I feel like an old toy that she tossed aside for a better one. I wanted to scream how I felt to her so badly to see if I could change her mind but I knew I would never be heard not like that anyway. I don't know what to do anymore I want her back really badly but how can I win her back? How can get her to notice me again let alone like me? Is what I'm feeling right? Should I stay quiet and let this feeling destroy what little of me is left? I just want her back....
@Justin6425 Hi , I'm sorry to hear your feeling this way. I know breakups are difficult but it's not about moving on it's about grounding yourself and making things a little more about you rather than thinking about the ex. If your ex has moved on it isn't fair to them or there new partner to try and win her back or tell her how you feel, this may make things worse for you and them. You need to give yourself time to heal, take some time out. Do all the things you love and that relaxes you. I know you want her back but she has made the decision to be with someone else, I know that's heartbreaking but your soul mate is out there don't give up ! All the best :)
@Justin6425
If there's one sure thing that can just make a man feel like his heart has been stomped on, thrown in a blender, and set on fire- it's a woman. And yes, men can be pretty awful to women too. But there's something about the story of a man who is forever changed after meeting a woman only to be left heartbroken in the end that's particularly bittersweet (and sometimes just bitter.)
I wish I could tell you how to feel better, how to get over her, how to move on, how to feel like yourself again. But there's nothing anyone could say that could mend your broken heart. It's the kind of wound that heals slowly, if ever, and I'm sorry you're going through this. It's cliche but it will get better in time. For right now, just go through the motions of living as best as you can. Find the things that console you- your favorite food, your favorite movies, your favorite sweatpants- and just wallow for a little while. These things won't be as enjoyable as usual, but it's about trying to settle back into life as best as you can. Eventually, you can find distractions to keep yoruself from thinking about her. Exercise is typical but it can be work or music or new hobbies. And then you'll just be living your life, not really expecting it, not really all that aware of it, but there will come a time where all the pieces of your broken heart have left her and you can be whole again. Hang in there!
@Justin6425
funny how my ex does the same proclamation of relationship officiality on IG like your ex did. hmmmm I went through the same situation. me in your shoes, my ex in your ex's shoes. He was my first love and first relationship. He broke me into pieces inside, and seeing him so happy with his new gf destroyed me. To cut things short, I was in shock and devastation, and I wanted him back so badly as well. But the only thing I could do was No Contact (don't reach out to the ex, don't beg, don't plead, don't think to sabotage, hide/delete the IG app for a bit so you're not hurting yourself with stalking, give yourself a month to mourn/grieve, etc). No Contact isn't really about making your ex wonder about you, but it is really about for you to rebalance and refocus on yourself. It gave me the time to digest the relationship, the breakup, my ex and myself... to come to a closure for myself. I still think about my ex (he messages me every so often even as he is with his new gf, but i willpower myself to refuse to answer him), and I too am guilty to keep him in my IG list (but I use IG to post things that makes me happy for me, not to boost to my ex), but I've learned that things happen and he chose the actions/path he wanted. All I can do is just be happy for my ex, but most importantly is that I pick myself up and continue to live, evolve and improve myself.
Bottomline: Everything you're feeling: hurt, pain, sadness, agony is normal. No contact, go out with friends, go back to your favorite hobby, go on mini coffee dates (when you're absolutely ready)... focus on you! Heal your heart, your soul, your mind, and your body.
@Justin6425 this will get better, totally get it. i mean it'll be hard trying to cope with seeing her post pictures or them out and about, but dont dwell on it. take your time and cope with it in your own wierd ways. its gonna take time! go out there and find someone who deserves your time!
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