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Hurt and Confused Need Advice

iwillbeokay1234 January 25th, 2022
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I was with my bf for over 2 years. I was in a happy and loving relationship the healthiest I had ever been in and I was beyond happy. Of course the relationship wasn’t perfect but I was happy. This past weekend I saw he had his lock screen as a picture of another girl upon further investigation i found out it was a girl from only fans. I just feel so betrayed and hurt that he would even do that. I broke up with him but now he started therapy for a porn addiction and is saying he wants to fix himself and be better for me. Is it worth even taking a chance? I don’t know what to do.

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powerfulDog9628 January 25th, 2022
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Firstly I would look at the relationship and say to myself “is this worth saving” if it is then go for it.

The main thing is has he gone to get help to help himself or is he using it as an excuse because he was found out. Now that can only be judged on your own instinct.

Do you also want to be checking his phone all the time? Making sure he’s not gone back to the only fans or porn. Personally I would have a sit back look at how happy you was look at happy you are now and happy you want to be. And whatever your decision whether it’s to stay with him or leave him. Everything happens for a reason. Whatever you decide don’t feel guilty. It’s your time to be happy


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iwillbeokay1234 OP January 25th, 2022
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@powerfulDog9628

thank you so much for your advice i appreciate it ❤️

kindHuman3766 January 26th, 2022
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I'm sorry that sounds painful but if you are happy with him and he DOES go to therapy than I think you have something worth saving. Just don't let him keep putting therapy off.

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